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Thread: lost her trust and lost her

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    Default lost her trust and lost her

    the girl i have been seeing for a while now left me recently.
    the reason is she feels like she cant trust me again.
    i didnt cheat, i was a tad bit insecure and didnt realize this until she told me she needed time and space.
    i gave her the time and space then we talked the other night and i told her i noticed that what i was doing hurt her bad bc of the stuff she had been through before. she replied with "i cant" and then i did the wrong thing and begged very briefly and told her i wouldnt be that way bc i didnt notice it myself and then ended up telling her i didnt like her decision but i would honor it and i left it like that.....

    if i am to try to get her and her trust back I dont care if it takes a little time but what should i do i know i wont be insecure or anything i would just like to fix this..... should i no contact, should i contact, what should i do im lost like her trust.

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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    The cure for one-itis is going out and bedding a dozen women, once you've done this, go back and see if she's really still worth it. Best of luck to you bro

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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    thanks for the quick reply, but if it ends up being i still really want her, what do i do from there

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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    Hmm, if you still really want her, go get her man! If bedding a dozen women won't make you forget about her, maybe there is really something there. I say you guys should both maybe just give it a little bit of time, maybe if you saw her get with someone else (or even just hear about it) you will lose feelings for her. Either way let us know!

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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    yea, im not sure if ill still have feelings for her after bedding a couple others but how should i go after her and whats the best way to win her trust back

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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    Dude, you have only been seeing this girl for a little bit and while all the power to you for that, it's far too early to make such a decision in that manner. Take the advice on going with other girls, but I wouldn't say just any girl, I'm talking about girls that are similar or better than this one who's messing you around.

    Taking the advice you will realise she may not be all that, plus you may just have too much fun along the way and will want more women, who knows? There's endless possibilities out there when you throw your self out there. No girl is truly that special and love, well love is beautiful and it is a powerful emotion, it is also nothing more than a mere function of the mind which in all truth is actually easy to manipulate and replicate. Translation, love in a sense is just your mind playing tricks with you but it is still something amazing.
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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    You need to work on your insecurity issues first. For us guys that have dated insecure girls you know that it is a pain. Insecurity betrays that you are NOT ALPHA. It says you are not confident that you are good enough for her and she will leave you. Begin to see other girls but if you do want to pursue this with her then keep talking to her, don't beg, and show you have cut that out. Be less available and do not intrude on her space if she isn't being too available for you. Women need to see you are willing to walk away. A few years into a relationship my ex started to fight with me and pull away a lot. At first I chased a bit and caught myself not being alpha. I then told her I need space. She couldn't deal with it. She came running back.

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    Default Re: lost her trust and lost her

    thank you for all the replies and advice, i was with her for almost 2 years. Im currently bettering myself and wont be insecure anymore and actually have a date on friday with another girl. i know time will tell if i even want her and getting me taken care of is far more important then worrying over her and if i choose to still seek something down the road with her i myself have to be different.


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