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    Charlie Neptune is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Eject or persist with HB9+

    I met an HB9+ about a month ago. We are both musicians and she wound up at a rehearsal I was in. She opened me up about my amp vibrating her seat to which I replied, "you're welcome". She laughed and was chatting me up & giving lots of IOIs. I didn't go for a number since some dude invited her and I wasn't sure if they were dating. Came to notice he's in the friend zone. She told me she'd be at our show a few days later. We chat a lot at the show and build comfort. I am kinoing her and we dance a bit. I tell her outside I'd want to call her sometime and she said, "I'd like that". I walk her to her car planning to k-close but a group of our friends show up so we hug and kiss on the cheek 3 or 4 times.

    I text a few days later on Black Friday (prob bad idea). We text a few times and I'm making her laugh. I ask if she has any fun plans over the wkend and get no response. I leave her alone till Wed and send a friendly message. She's receptive and nice. I tell her I'm heading to a cool show in the city, no response. I haven't hit her up in 3 weeks. Important bit of info: as we were chatting in person she told me she had broke up w/ her fiancÚ of 5 years about 8 months back. I also had a similar situation.

    I don't have oneitis. I've been meeting as many girls as possible. This girl was incredibly hot and a cool person. I'm feeling like she's probably scared of a relationship at this point so she avoided me. Maybe I screwed up. What do you feel is my best move? Forget this one or reinitiate contact.....but what will work?

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    Default Re: Eject or persist?

    I don't really see why you couldn't reconnect with her. I think I know your troubles though.

    Try to text her only after 9pm during the week. She is likely getting ready for bed and you'll be the last person she talks to for the day. Friday and Saturday don't text her at all. And Sunday you may be able to text her throughout the day.
    You do this and you will increase the chances of her responding to your texts. Instead of reading them, wanting to respond, then forgetting because she got distracted. Which in turn forces you to text her again and makes you look like you're chasing after her.

    Attractive women have busy lives when it comes to getting lots of attention and validation from people in their lives. So as a PUA we have to work with that. Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Charlie Neptune is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Eject or persist?

    Good advice! I'll be back with results

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    Default Re: Eject or persist?

    Bandit i know this question may sound obvious, but i'll ask it anyway just to confirm, does the texting say after 9pm resonate more well with different types of women or across the board? because up until this point i never saw that abstract side to text game


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