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    Lex S is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Wishing happy birthday

    So this girl I've been pursuing has a birthday this week. I've already had sex with her and she initiates contact with me more than I do her, but I'm hesitant to wish her a happy birthday or even remember it, because I've been told it's extremely alpha to forget b-days/holidays/anniversaries.

    Case in point - A FWB had a birthday a few months back. I had a legitimately busy weekend and almost didn't go to her party, but I made time and went anyway. I was an hour late, didn't kiss her when I walked in, and I didn't have a present. She chewed me out for all these things later on at the party. But surprise surprise, she later on told me that her birthday wish was that I'd be her boyfriend. I told her NO, and expected the worst. Within a few hours we were hooking up and she enjoyed every minute.

    I know it's a kind gesture to wish a happy b-day, but if the FWB's party was any indication, it seems like it's best to forget/ignore it. Any thoughts on this? Has anyone experience better results one way or the other?

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    Default Re: Wishing happy birthday

    I just do it on fb cus it pops up in my news feed lol

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Wishing happy birthday

    Nah man, wishing someone happy birthday isn't beta, it's beta if you buy them a fucking gift in hopes that she'll like you. It's only beta if you actually give a shit.

    Wish her a Happy Birthday and that's it, don't go "Happy birthday Laura, I wish you all the best etc etc..." a simple happy birthday will do.

    Then again, you're never obliged to say anything so it's all up to you.

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    Default Re: Wishing happy birthday

    I agree with FrostedFluke. Saying happy birthday is polite and is not beta. Every situation is different so just because it worked well once before doesn't guarantee it will work so well again. Saying a short happy birthday shows her that you do care to a certain degree. It more then likely will earn you browny points with this girl seeing as she initiates conversation more then you do

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    Default Re: Wishing happy birthday

    Alright, thanks for the info, guys. Another question - This girl's first language is French. Is it cute or lame if I wish her happy birthday in French?


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