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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    There is too much thinking involved. You are in college, just charm her and take control. Girls in college knows everything is temporary so if a girl likes you, you have limited time to act before your value gets shat. Sh!t its college, thats like a spring break party in a country you are visiting ... nothing should be serious. Have fun, less thinking, and take control.
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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    Honestly her sending a Tweet is not initiating contact. It's like her posting an update on her wall and you commenting on it.

    She's playing the game man, do your thing, maintain your frame, and don't show her too much interest. You seem to have a lot of HBs in your group, try to spark some jealousy by showing them more attention than this chick. AND ALWAYS KEEP YOUR ALPHA status.

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    Our school is chock full of HB7-HB10s, but it's a small school so everyone knows everyone's business when it comes to that kind of stuff. Can I use con that to my advantage?

    EDIT: Also, about the tweet. She doesn't tweet very much. At all. I could tell she was up to something but I couldn't really figure out what it was.


    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Honestly her sending a Tweet is not initiating contact. It's like her posting an update on her wall and you commenting on it.

    She's playing the game man, do your thing, maintain your frame, and don't show her too much interest. You seem to have a lot of HBs in your group, try to spark some jealousy by showing them more attention than this chick. AND ALWAYS KEEP YOUR ALPHA status.

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    Yeah man, the way you want to play it is you want to transform yourself into the Alpha of the group. Meaning that you want to take a flirty cocky funny approach with all the HBs in that group. Just have fun, flirt, she will take notice. And so will other girls, a lot of doors will open for you and you probably will game a lot more chicks.

    Attraction is not an option, once she sees other girls giving you IOI she will more than likely try to validate herself and come to you. Then you are in...

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    Some of my friends in this group are pretty alpha as well. Is it possible for more one person to assume that spot, or no? Just wondering

    EDIT: Also, about the tweet. She doesn't tweet very much. At all. I could tell she was up to something but I couldn't really figure out what it was.


    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Yeah man, the way you want to play it is you want to transform yourself into the Alpha of the group. Meaning that you want to take a flirty cocky funny approach with all the HBs in that group. Just have fun, flirt, she will take notice. And so will other girls, a lot of doors will open for you and you probably will game a lot more chicks.

    Attraction is not an option, once she sees other girls giving you IOI she will more than likely try to validate herself and come to you. Then you are in...

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    I see what you are saying, but unless it is directed @you...then she didn't initiate. She's a good looking girl, right? You know she is probably being gamed by a few other guys.

    Try your best but don' t come off as try hard. Just don't take shit from the other 'AMOG' and keep steady in your flirty approach with the girls. Body Language is key.

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    Yeah, it was directed at me. I didn't include tags/anything to keep my personal info private. I posted a tweet that didn't refer to her at all, and she "mentioned" (@myUsername) me with that reaction.

    That's why I couldn't figure out what she was up to.. I responded to that tweet with something I thought was solid, and didn't get a reply. The same thing happened the next day when I tried to see where she was at. Still no response to the text either (24hours later)


    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    I see what you are saying, but unless it is directed @you...then she didn't initiate. She's a good looking girl, right? You know she is probably being gamed by a few other guys.

    Try your best but don' t come off as try hard. Just don't take sh1t from the other 'AMOG' and keep steady in your flirty approach with the girls. Body Language is key.

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    Continue as planned man. I think you just need to be patient and game other girls in the process as discussed earlier.

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    Default Re: Am I being gamed, a backup, or just oblivious?

    her friend can be cockblocking u

    girls feel guilt over wanting someone their friend likes.

    in this case, and situations where u JUST meet a group of girls, always be clear as to who u want.

    1) let ur girl now u r interested in dating her and u r not there to play friend.
    --a) be funny abt it
    --b) be firm/clear/quick
    2) i would do this openly in front of the two or let them know seperately. do it soon as u may have already allowed the HB6 develop feeling and the HB9 develop guilt
    3) as for ur HB9 being b*tchy. u must address her unacceptable behavior also.
    --a) refer to #1
    --b) refer to #1

    next time an alpha/man enters n starts stealing ur convo
    1) greet him quickly
    2) build rapport with him
    --stealing his thunder
    3) then use Chick Crack routines for groups to redirect the center of attention back to u.
    example: 1) who is the psychopath 2) funny story

    and to hold her interest, what r u using to build attraction.?

    GL


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