That moment when you get hot and ready to be the biggest d1ck you can - that's when she (or he the AMOG) has gotten to trigger your "fight or flight" response. But there is a third option - "play" ..."fight, flight or play" playing with him or her and being playful rather than getting angry, upset or affected is the essence of passing a sh1t test.
DTF HB's omw 2 LTR
Yes i agree Autismus!
Just after i posted my last reply, was joking with coworkers and the loudmouth Hb6 was saying she wasnt sure about me because i was being pretty 'friendly' with a gay client.
I rolled with it... i said he wasnt my type in the most girlish voice i could. Everyone was laughing. I then told them that i much preferred a client from the past who was a tranny (and full disclosure... im sorry but that tranny fooled alot of my coworkers cuz she ... ahem... put herself together well lol).
Everyone laughs etc. Thats the duality of framing... sometimes its actually a test, but othertimes its just playing around. No need to get defensive. But if girls find something you are sensitive about, they will pick at it until u crack.
Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
I do this regularly. I work with a gay guy and most of the people he works with are girls HB5-9. I flirt with him regularly as well as the other girls and they LOVE it.
Aside from that I have done all kinds of goofy stuff with my guy friends like walking through stores holding hands and what not just to see the reaction we get as I live in the Bible Belt.
KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple