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Thread: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

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    Default She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    Met this girl online about 10 days ago. We've been texting, even swapped pics. Had a long conversation on the phone earlier today. We made plans to go out tonight. She even picked the place (wanted me to try sushi for the first time) She seemed genuinely excited to see me tonight. Supposed to call me at 9:00 when she gets off work.

    Here is the text she sent at 8:30: "Your going to hate me but I have to cancel tonight. Emergency came up. I am so sorry! Haven't even ate anything now thing happened that I have to do. Stressed out and feel like sh1t because really wanted to meet you. I'm truly sorry and hope to God that you will forgive me and make time for me again. "

    I was really excited to meet this HB 8.5 because she has a really fun, outgoing personality and I knew we were going to have a lot of fun. So I am really farking pissed and just want to call and tear her a new asshole (very AFCish of me and I've tried to leave that sh1t in the past)

    I would think about giving her another chance but I don't know. Havent responded yet and I plan to freeze out the next few days. How do you guys handle this type of situation? Thanks for any advice

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    Personally, I'd just tell her super shortly...

    "no worries "

    This kind of puts the ball back in her court and also makes her wonder if your upset, without actually sounding upset.

    Works for me.

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    Exactly what JaySonic said, you have no right to tear her a new one, you barely know this girl, if you do, she's going to lose almost all attraction she has for you. Play it cool, act like it doesn't phase you whatsoever! Respond with "All good" or "No worries" add a smiley face if you'd like.

    I guarantee you with the way she canceled, she's going to call again.

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    I understand what you guys are saying. But don't I need to set a precedent that cancelling on me at the last minute is not OK? I get that I should play it cool and not be affected by it but I don't want to come off as a push over that she can flake on last minute if something better comes up.

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    Let it go, that text is far different from the normal can't make it something came up text that you get from a flaky girl. Give her another shot and if she does it again THEN you can make a decision to call it off.

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    I did what u said and just sent "no worries " she responded immediately saying she had to help her friend out and how it was such a bitch the way everything worked out. I just don't know what to do from here.

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    See, don't over analyze shiz. Sometimes girls do tell the truth. Ummmm.... try rescheduling or wait a day or so and hit her up with another time and date? I'll let others chime in, but that is what I would do. Maybe throw in a teasing comment like, "You can make it up to me by coming out to so and so at such and such time for drinks blah blah "

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    Quote Originally Posted by Ron Mexico View Post
    I did what u said and just sent "no worries " she responded immediately saying she had to help her friend out and how it was such a bitch the way everything worked out. I just don't know what to do from here.
    like shortman said just give her the benefit of the dought wait a day or so n give it another try...n def throw in some tasteful teasing it works....and also try a video chat wit her just to make sure she is the HB from the pic...sorry bad experience n watchin that new show on mtv just straight killed the whole online thing for me lol...but go gettem tiger your doin great just stay cool

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    Well I have another dilemma with this chick. Here is the text thread that followed:
    "Well if you want to make it up to me, u can buy me a drink there (the place we were originally supposed to meet) on Saturday night."
    Her: " lol OK" (less than a minute later)
    Me: (10 minutes later)
    The next day I texted her just to confirm.
    "Soooo, was that a yes for tomorrow night then?"
    She has responded. Been about 8 hours and she is normally a very quick tester. Where did I screw up? Do I call her tomorrow to see if its on or just freeze her out and go sarging with friends?

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    Default Re: She cxl'd last minute. I am pissed

    @Ron

    let it go... give her the benefit if the doubt

    if u talk abt precedent - then u also need to establish the precedent that u r not some anal guy who flies off the handle the moment something doesn't go ur way.... if that is true, then u may have to look inward at why u cannot control ur temper.

    if u have been reading ur PUA, the correct response is taking things in stride. u do not own her - she does not owe u anything.
    ~~~~ am i right.? ~ do u own her.?

    let her know it's no big deal
    then wait for her to make it up. a woman who is interested will reschedule - otherwise she was just stringing u along.... or whatever came up in her mind prevented her woman brain from committing.

    in any case, whatever the reason is not ur issue to figure out. shrug it off and look at other options to keep ur mind off of this one.

    cheers.


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