Ok, so heres what happened everyone. I picked her up for dinner and we had a nice time. Then we went to the casino and had a pretty good time too.
I only gambled $20 since Im not much of a fan of losing my $$. We just went to experience it and hang out.
I was letting her do all of the physical contact. She kept grabbing my legs and touching me constantly. I didnt see the replies by the time I went out with her so I just decided not to start anything. Actually most of the time i didnt do anything back to her at all.
Then shes like if you eat this lemon wedge Ill give you one kiss. i said no, shes like 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, kisses. i was like how about i eat it to make sure you dont kiss me. ahha
then I gave in and said ok fine 1 kiss, but then i went to redeem it and she didnt say when she would give it to me. oh well it was funny.
so then we left and went back to my place. we were in my bed and got right into it. There wasnt ANY foreplay at all. I didnt expect to have sex, I just got naked and she went with it.
The next day we had sex a few more times, she gave me some unbelievable head, and she said that she thought our first time would have been more passionate or there would have been some foreplay at least because of how close we are. I was like shitttt.. Then we were chillin there and she said, are we going to have sex often? I said well im not sure. Probably not good for me to say im not sure. I should have just said yes. I said something like you don't want to? She said no and it was fun but we shouldnt do it anymore.
I thought that was a major buzz kill and I told her that kinda hurt. Then when I was taking her back home I said I wish she didnt say that or at least could have said that the next day to let me enjoy the moment. shes like why its not bad. I was like yeah it kinda is, I thought we just had a lot of fun and now you are saying you dont want to have that kind of fun with me anymore.
She then said, she has always said she doesnt want to do anything with me but then she does. She says she doesnt know why she says it and she feels confused. I told her I feel confused to and I am not putting any labels on anything. I am just living life. While we were lying in bed I told her that I will never ask her to be exclusive. If she wants to be exclusive she would have to ask me and I would consider it. She then said can we be exclusive and I said no. I think she was joking plus I really dont want to be exclusive at this point because I am just getting into the game again. I really like her, I'll see where it goes, but im pretty sure she was joking anyway.
So I just said hey, i understand you gotta verbalize whatever you have to in order to make you feel better or whatever. Anyway, next day(last night) we went to a movie, she grabbed my hands and held them. she put her legs on mine and wanted me to rub them. it felt like she was my girlfriend. it was awesome. I'm not getting my hopes up and am still working on other girls but this chick is pretty cool.
I told her I dont care about labels or anything and im just goin with the flow, one day at a time.
I dont think its a good idea to bring up the sex thing or anything on how it could have had more foreplay or whatnot. I think I am going to just keep reading more tips in these forums and keep trying to move forward and sustain.
Do you guys think I am doing good? Is there anything that you can see I am obviously doing wrong? If so, please advise bros.