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    Default Re: She Says Friend, but Does More, MTLR

    Ok, so heres what happened everyone. I picked her up for dinner and we had a nice time. Then we went to the casino and had a pretty good time too.

    I only gambled $20 since Im not much of a fan of losing my $$. We just went to experience it and hang out.

    I was letting her do all of the physical contact. She kept grabbing my legs and touching me constantly. I didnt see the replies by the time I went out with her so I just decided not to start anything. Actually most of the time i didnt do anything back to her at all.

    Then shes like if you eat this lemon wedge Ill give you one kiss. i said no, shes like 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, kisses. i was like how about i eat it to make sure you dont kiss me. ahha

    then I gave in and said ok fine 1 kiss, but then i went to redeem it and she didnt say when she would give it to me. oh well it was funny.

    so then we left and went back to my place. we were in my bed and got right into it. There wasnt ANY foreplay at all. I didnt expect to have sex, I just got naked and she went with it.

    The next day we had sex a few more times, she gave me some unbelievable head, and she said that she thought our first time would have been more passionate or there would have been some foreplay at least because of how close we are. I was like shitttt.. Then we were chillin there and she said, are we going to have sex often? I said well im not sure. Probably not good for me to say im not sure. I should have just said yes. I said something like you don't want to? She said no and it was fun but we shouldnt do it anymore.

    I thought that was a major buzz kill and I told her that kinda hurt. Then when I was taking her back home I said I wish she didnt say that or at least could have said that the next day to let me enjoy the moment. shes like why its not bad. I was like yeah it kinda is, I thought we just had a lot of fun and now you are saying you dont want to have that kind of fun with me anymore.

    She then said, she has always said she doesnt want to do anything with me but then she does. She says she doesnt know why she says it and she feels confused. I told her I feel confused to and I am not putting any labels on anything. I am just living life. While we were lying in bed I told her that I will never ask her to be exclusive. If she wants to be exclusive she would have to ask me and I would consider it. She then said can we be exclusive and I said no. I think she was joking plus I really dont want to be exclusive at this point because I am just getting into the game again. I really like her, I'll see where it goes, but im pretty sure she was joking anyway.

    So I just said hey, i understand you gotta verbalize whatever you have to in order to make you feel better or whatever. Anyway, next day(last night) we went to a movie, she grabbed my hands and held them. she put her legs on mine and wanted me to rub them. it felt like she was my girlfriend. it was awesome. I'm not getting my hopes up and am still working on other girls but this chick is pretty cool.

    I told her I dont care about labels or anything and im just goin with the flow, one day at a time.

    I dont think its a good idea to bring up the sex thing or anything on how it could have had more foreplay or whatnot. I think I am going to just keep reading more tips in these forums and keep trying to move forward and sustain.

    Do you guys think I am doing good? Is there anything that you can see I am obviously doing wrong? If so, please advise bros.

    Peace,

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    Default Re: She Says Friend, but Does More, MTLR

    btw, we really don't make out that often. It actually really bugs me and reminds me of other girls in the past that I just messed around with. I felt that we didnt make out because that was too serious or something. At least thats the vibe I got from them or they werent attracted to making out with me.

    anyway, I love making out and I really want this to be a part of our relations. any suggestions?

    I dont jam my tongue down her mouth or anything and I have been told I am a good kisser. I dont know.

    Also, she showed me off to her co workers yesterday when I picked her up from work. She told them that we fucked and had a great time.. I was pretty happy to hear that. Seems like its going decent..

    Any help would be welcomed and appreciated!

    Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: She Says Friend, but Does More, MTLR

    haha,

    hey bud good stuff!

    Your doing good. Just remember YOU ARE THE MAN, not her. YOU need to take the lead and show her your world. DOnt let her be the one who controls the sex. When she said "i don't wanna do this again" you have to laugh it off and make a joke about it like " Damn, I feel bad for you!' her: Why?, "cause your never gonna get to touch this body again"!! with a cheeky smile...... I know its hard to do when your in the moment and emotional but just try.

    Also, DOnt bring anything up about the sex being "unpassionate" or whatever. Girls act emotionally no logically, so shell forget, but next time just give it to her passionately !!!!

    About making out: If you like making out, make the fuck out. Your in control. Grab her face, kiss her then give her butt a little slap and push her away.


    anyyways, these are joust little snippets of info. Your doing great. Do not bring up a relationship...... and your good. cheers man

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    Default Re: She Says Friend, but Does More, MTLR

    Quote Originally Posted by inter1010 View Post
    haha,

    hey bud good stuff!

    Your doing good. Just remember YOU ARE THE MAN, not her. YOU need to take the lead and show her your world. DOnt let her be the one who controls the sex. When she said "i don't wanna do this again" you have to laugh it off and make a joke about it like " Damn, I feel bad for you!' her: Why?, "cause your never gonna get to touch this body again"!! with a cheeky smile...... I know its hard to do when your in the moment and emotional but just try.

    Also, DOnt bring anything up about the sex being "unpassionate" or whatever. Girls act emotionally no logically, so shell forget, but next time just give it to her passionately !!!!

    About making out: If you like making out, make the fark out. Your in control. Grab her face, kiss her then give her butt a little slap and push her away.


    anyyways, these are joust little snippets of info. Your doing great. Do not bring up a relationship...... and your good. cheers man
    Ok cool.. you're right.. I need to be more in control.

    i like the example of what I could have done when she said she doesnt want to do this again.

    I wont bring anything up about the sex.

    I will try that about making out, i hope she doesnt turn her face when I go to kiss her. Shit like that makes me upset and I wish it didnt. I dont know how or what to do if she turns her face when I go to kiss her. hmmm..

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    Default Re: She Says Friend, but Does More, MTLR

    u must train urself not to take things personally.

    it will be ur fault if u didn't build enough comfort to do so.

    PUA basic
    never blame them, blame urself

    so what if she turns and she sees u steaming or show a tantrum... what do u think she'll see u as after.?

    when ur stuck as to ur next move... ask urself what would a real man do.?

    i haven't had one turn - but i guess if that happened... i'd just smile and press on with another topic and wink that it's cool.

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    Default Re: She Says Friend, but Does More, MTLR

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    u must train urself not to take things personally.

    it will be ur fault if u didn't build enough comfort to do so.

    PUA basic
    never blame them, blame urself

    so what if she turns and she sees u steaming or show a tantrum... what do u think she'll see u as after.?

    when ur stuck as to ur next move... ask urself what would a real man do.?

    i haven't had one turn - but i guess if that happened... i'd just smile and press on with another topic and wink that it's cool.
    ok cool.. well she ended up coming over again and I did the same thing.. i let her make most of the moves most of the night. I went to kiss her and she did turn. I played it off like no big deal. then when she was touching me I said no, we shouldnt do this..

    i kept stepping back and trying to get her to stop touching me and she kept pushing more and more. then slammed me into the oven and started molesting me..

    then later we were on the couch and she told me to start making out with her.. its really funny how women work.

    i guess i need to keep building more attraction and comfort in order to get things to go more my way ya know.. hmm... hahha


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