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    mikeKYLEjones is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Do I Push This Meetup?

    Meet a girl about two weeks ago, went on a date a few days later and had some great chemistry. Last weekend I was out of town and on Sunday morning asked if she wanted to go out that night, once I was back in town. She said she'd love to, but was tired/hungover from the night before. I didn't text her again until Wed and we had a good convo going. I invited her to meet up with some of my friends and me at the bar tonight (I didn't tell her a time) and got no response. I was thinking about texting her something this afternoon? Good idea or not?

    How do these sound?
    See you tonight at 7:30 - It'll be fun
    Bring a friend with you to (bar) - 7:30

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    sidewinder89 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Do I Push This Meetup?

    ok the mistake here was inviting her to meet your friends... too much too soon my friend. Girls worry about being judged a lot so the idea of turning up to meet 3 of your friends probably freaked her out.

    Wait a little longer before sending a text. You don't want to come off as needy. Just wait and see and if she's a no show wait a few days before re-engaging and don't mention that she didn't come.

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    Default Re: Do I Push This Meetup?

    i dunno abt too soon or freaking her out... altho they do worry abt bring judged (as we all do) her attraction can also be measured here by seeing u anyway... i mean, u wouldn't turn down a date from her if she said her friends would b there would u.?

    if u ask her out - do it on a high note with humor.

    example:
    U: Stacey, i had the weirdest dream i was being chased by turnips and band members of the Red Hot Chilli Peppers last night..

    HER: lol - oh yeah.?

    U: btw, let's bar hop tonight.!

    GL


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