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    Default What to do? Girls who think they're All That.

    So, let me tell you what went down.
    Last weekend I went to my younger brothers graduation party. It was a smaller party but enough people to talk to different ones through out the night. I had my eye on a HB8 once the dancing music started so I went up to her and just said:

    - Want to dance with me?

    - No. I don't know how to dance.

    - (With my hand out for her to accept the dance) What a coincidence. I don't know either. We can not dance together. What do you think?

    She didn't say anything but accepted the dance, then I took lead and went into a square dance pattern in rhythm with the music in case she really didn't know how to dance.

    I initiated conversation with her during the dance:

    - Are you graduating?

    - Yeah.

    - I'm brothers with Jack. Do you know him?

    - No. I'm in a different class.

    - What's your name?

    - Alice.

    Right then, she let go and went off to get drinks with a friend of hers. I walked off to a few of my own friends to see if anyone knew anything about this girl.
    One of my friends did know who she was but never talked to her. I asked if she was a little anti-social or just thought she was all that. He said that she only goes out with guys who have nice cars, money, clothes, that sort of stuff. "She thinks she sh1ts gold bricks" (Thats a saying I use for girls who think their at a higher social status than they actually are)

    So, the question is, if you know these kind of girls are out there and can identify then beforehand, how can you make yourself seem better than movie stars for a while, or spark interest from these kinds of girls during initial conversations?

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    Default Re: What to do? Girls who think they're All That.

    1) do not engage in convo on the dance floor. just dance

    2) u came to her, but did not pique her interest first... being nice and asking her to the floor -- she's had that many times already.

    3) don't take what she did personally. accept blame because u handled her incorrectly. accepting blame is not a bad thing.... tell urself all failures are learning experiences.

    4) u cannot tell when girls will reject u - u do not know what their day has been like or what situation/mental state they are currently in

    5) it is ur job to study ur PUA material.
    -1) open her interestingly
    -2) be polite and fun and rely on ur PUA knowledge
    -3) ur responses are witty and challenge her (not to soothe her ego)
    -4) be quick and get her number and exit on a high note

    this will be a long post now that i think of how u delt with ur target.

    just remember not to take her response personally

    study more on ur PUA skills... start with an easy book like "the layguide" or "the game" to give u an idea on what u should be doing and what school of PUA u'd like to learn from.

    sure there r quick fixes to get a girl - but u will not be consistsnt if u do not first learn some PUA knowledge first. what have u studied so far.?


    GL.^^

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    Default Re: What to do? Girls who think they're All That.

    All I did was read "The Game" last month. I did notice that I came off all wrong with this girl in particular but I am still beating my AA and I thought about that first. Any conversation is good conversation.
    I didn't talk to the HB8 in particular any more after that but I started conversations with two other girls.
    I took this graduation party for me as an AA session: Say hi to every girl in front of me. I was getting into a talkative mood when I saw her and I guess I just couldn't keep my mouth shut for a while and plan a different approach.

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    Default Re: What to do? Girls who think they're All That.

    ah....... i've had similar situations as u - because i always talk to many girls.

    she may have seen this and categorized u as a player -- which would make her VERY defensive against ur approach.

    but still - talk minimal dancing... dance more
    PUA her off the dance floor - get the digits - get out.

    GL nex time.^^

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    Default Re: What to do? Girls who think they're All That.

    The prettiest girls get the most attention. So, instead of you going up to her, go up to her friend (she will always have one with her in a club) and ask her to dance, have fun with her openly and then turn your attention to the girl you like.
    "To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." - Oscar Wilde


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