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    Arnaz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't respon

    I day gamed a girl 3 days ago: just an intro + FTC and an opener "you have a nice energy, open..." She said she had to go and gave me her #

    The next day I texted her
    Me: hey (Name) I we didn't get to talk much but it was nice meeting you
    Her: 2.5 hours later: hey how are you doing love
    Her (double text): tell me more about you
    Me: 15 minutes later: I'm from DC, I'm 24, and I love doing new things and meeting new people, U?
    Her: 20 minutes later: I'm from DC and Bajan, I'm 21
    Her: (double text): and my friends say that I am a lot of fun
    Me: 15 minutes later: When I see you again you can promise me a good time and that you will be spontaneous?
    Her: Of course
    - then out of the corner of my eye I saw her walking down the street but she didn't see me, right before I was about to stop her another guy started talking to her and I could tell he was rude and trying to force kino (she was greatly turned off)
    She looked back saw me and almost ran to me...
    I helped her separate from him and after he was gone I asked her if she wanted to eat and she said yes.
    While we were walking to Panera Bread I put my arm around her back and started qualifying her and finding out more about her. While we were walking she said:
    Her: I see you put your arm around my back
    Me: I wanted to and I'm pretty sure you liked it because you didn't pull away like you did with the other guy
    Her: why did you want to you barely know me
    Me: I think you are attractive and there is plenty time for us to get to know each other (she cutely smirked)
    (When we got to Panera Bread she stopped dead at the door and didn't attempt to pay)
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    While we were eating I kept qualifying and asked her if she was spontaneous
    Me: are you spontaneous?
    Her: (hesitate) kind of
    Me: yes you are, I asked you in the text and you said you were
    Her: no I didn't.
    Me: Yes you did ( showed her text)
    She:smirked (as I got up from the table to get the food ) I tapped her on her thigh under the table
    During the meal she asked me if I was single when/why I was single and told me the same about her
    When we left and walked to the metro, I put her arm around her back again:
    Another interesting conversation as we walked to the metro:
    Me: it's getting cold outside
    Her: yea it really is
    Me: it's too bad, in November it was really nice

    Her: I'm cold ( and pulled in closer to me) I guess it's because I'm only wearing stockings [she worked in the makeup counter at Macy's and was wearing a black skirt with stockings that ended right under her skirt]
    Me: Probably (as I said that I touched the top of her skirt getting half skirt/half thigh
    Her: but they are sexy though
    Me:yep she giggled
    -when we sat on the train I put my arm around her back and was rubbing on her thigh so no one else could see
    During that conversation she asked me what I was doing the next day, I said I was busy
    At the end she gave me a hug and I gave her a peck on the cheek she blushed and smiled, then I asked her if I could give her a small kiss
    She said we just met each other and I responded that I new everything about her (she had said that previously when I asked if there was anything else I didn't know about her)
    Then I went in for another kiss and she put her hands up to stop me....
    - I didn't text her until yesterday 5 PM with
    Me: Hey Crazy legs (she is a model and has great legs), don't get to tired at work tomorrow
    No response
    Today at 12:40 I texted her: Crazy Lags,meow is the world of Macy's makeup department treating you? No response yet

    Did I escalate to fast? Is she having buyers remorse, or thinks that I'm just a player?
    Is she not used to quick escalation or a more direct approach? Is she just not easy and wants to slow thinks down before talking with me again? Should I freeze her out and how do I reignite the conversation?

    All help is welcome
    Arnaz

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    Default Re: Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't re

    Hmm tough to say... I dont think she showed enough IOIs to k close. When I feel that way I give them a kiss on the cheek, sometimes they come in for the lips after... if not then cool you didnt pressure her into anything.

    Also I never ask if I can kiss her... unless your game has been rock solid it kind of freaks her out and its easier to just say no.

    Kisses on the cheek work wonders... without permission. If she doesnt like it she will let you know. If she seems to like them after a couple put your hand on her chin and turn her head for a closed mouth kiss. (You think I wouldn't have to specify but some guys bring in the tongue wayyy too early)

    Anyway as for your situation I would freeze her out... no more txts for a week or 2. Then tell her your somewhere exciting with friends but didnt invite because you think she would be too timid for this kind of thing. Neg. I.e. shooting range.

    No more compliments for her..or her legs. She must earn them now.

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    Arnaz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't re

    -The whole time she couldn't stop play with her hair, was (smiling/laughing/giggling/smirking)
    -On the train ride I just put my arm around her and she put all of her weight into my chest and was laying on me ( she was tired).
    - during the train conversation, while we were talking about how random it was to see each other 2 days in a row she asked me what I was doing the next day.

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    Default Re: Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't re

    Seems like she was into it. Maybe it was just the asking for a kiss that scared her. Hard to say.. Either way definitely freeze her out.

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    Arnaz is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't re

    Yea, I probably won't text her until Christmas: Her birthday is dec. 28 and she always told me on how she always did something with her friend (honestly I don't want to go and face her friends or buy anything)

    "Have a Merry Christmas, IF you were Nice then you will get what you wanted, and IF you were Naughty then You all ready got what you wanted, and have a Happy 22nd."

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    Default Re: Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't re

    No need to send that text, just hit her up in a few days and forget what happened before

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    Default Re: Met a girl, kino strong, everything worked, pushed back a kiss won't re

    i really like ur game, Arnaz.

    PRO
    PUA - wit - KINO

    CON
    u did right in BOLDLY pushing how far u can go with her -- however -- u must pay attention to when she is discomforted and scale back one step.

    chances are, that she was not keen on how fast u escalated - and u did it during the day.! u treated her like u were already her BF and escalated and eacalated without paying attention to her comfort level

    it may even be that u made her feel -- slutty -- ouchie.!

    give her some space and text her now n then - then call it done if she doesn't respond.

    so next time Boldly go in and watch look for when she wants u to scale back.


    ------
    on another note... u also have no idea what her situation is. she may have just broken up last month - have a bf - have fam issues - been with a smooth talker before....

    which is why it's important u remember to watch for an indication to scale back.

    personally -
    1) i would've kep it light, polite, and fun.
    2) hint sexually but neg her when she is sexual
    ---- draw her out of her comfort zone over time and make her want u sexually

    3) do this to all the girls u meet - as i find it safer they escalate u - then u left wondering what u did wrong.


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