I day gamed a girl 3 days ago: just an intro + FTC and an opener "you have a nice energy, open..." She said she had to go and gave me her #
The next day I texted her
Me: hey (Name) I we didn't get to talk much but it was nice meeting you
Her: 2.5 hours later: hey how are you doing love
Her (double text): tell me more about you
Me: 15 minutes later: I'm from DC, I'm 24, and I love doing new things and meeting new people, U?
Her: 20 minutes later: I'm from DC and Bajan, I'm 21
Her: (double text): and my friends say that I am a lot of fun
Me: 15 minutes later: When I see you again you can promise me a good time and that you will be spontaneous?
Her: Of course
- then out of the corner of my eye I saw her walking down the street but she didn't see me, right before I was about to stop her another guy started talking to her and I could tell he was rude and trying to force kino (she was greatly turned off)
She looked back saw me and almost ran to me...
I helped her separate from him and after he was gone I asked her if she wanted to eat and she said yes.
While we were walking to Panera Bread I put my arm around her back and started qualifying her and finding out more about her. While we were walking she said:
Her: I see you put your arm around my back
Me: I wanted to and I'm pretty sure you liked it because you didn't pull away like you did with the other guy
Her: why did you want to you barely know me
Me: I think you are attractive and there is plenty time for us to get to know each other (she cutely smirked)
(When we got to Panera Bread she stopped dead at the door and didn't attempt to pay)
While we were eating I kept qualifying and asked her if she was spontaneous
Me: are you spontaneous?
Her: (hesitate) kind of
Me: yes you are, I asked you in the text and you said you were
Her: no I didn't.
Me: Yes you did ( showed her text)
She:smirked (as I got up from the table to get the food ) I tapped her on her thigh under the table
During the meal she asked me if I was single when/why I was single and told me the same about her
When we left and walked to the metro, I put her arm around her back again:
Another interesting conversation as we walked to the metro:
Me: it's getting cold outside
Her: yea it really is
Me: it's too bad, in November it was really nice
Her: I'm cold ( and pulled in closer to me) I guess it's because I'm only wearing stockings [she worked in the makeup counter at Macy's and was wearing a black skirt with stockings that ended right under her skirt]
Me: Probably (as I said that I touched the top of her skirt getting half skirt/half thigh
Her: but they are sexy though
Me:yep she giggled
-when we sat on the train I put my arm around her back and was rubbing on her thigh so no one else could see
During that conversation she asked me what I was doing the next day, I said I was busy
At the end she gave me a hug and I gave her a peck on the cheek she blushed and smiled, then I asked her if I could give her a small kiss
She said we just met each other and I responded that I new everything about her (she had said that previously when I asked if there was anything else I didn't know about her)
Then I went in for another kiss and she put her hands up to stop me....
- I didn't text her until yesterday 5 PM with
Me: Hey Crazy legs (she is a model and has great legs), don't get to tired at work tomorrow
Today at 12:40 I texted her: Crazy Lags,meow is the world of Macy's makeup department treating you? No response yet
Did I escalate to fast? Is she having buyers remorse, or thinks that I'm just a player?
Is she not used to quick escalation or a more direct approach? Is she just not easy and wants to slow thinks down before talking with me again? Should I freeze her out and how do I reignite the conversation?
All help is welcome