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    SexualSorcerer333 is offline PUA Forums Banned
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    Default Group dynamics and complications

    I wanted to start a post addressing the complications of group dynamics and how to address them, especially when your alone. This is one of the most complex and oftentimes frustrating aspects of the game.

    The first thing I want to ask the experts out there, is, when you have two women together and you want to focus on one, how do you keep the other one from getting bored and pulling them away? Mystery said to approach the woman you want last. But if she is the one you want who is to say she wont leave?

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    Default Re: Group dynamics and complications

    You describe a scenario of 2 girls.
    2 likely scenarios
    a) You will impress them both and the target will stay with you while the friend will leave
    b) Both girls will leave together

    The first one will only happen if you impress them both and prove to the friend that you are that great guy. You MUST have the friends approval first before the target will stay with you. Thats why mystery suggests always approaching the friend first. If and when the friend likes you, the target will naturally like you. And then you can work on the target. You must entertain both of them while gradually showing your interest in the target. If you do a good enough job the friend will eventually leave and give you guys alone time.

    In the second scenario you do not do enough to entertain both of them to get them to stay. If you bore one of them you will lose the set! It doesnt matter if one is entertained, she will grab the friend and take her away and there is nothing you can do.

    Oops just realised you asked for the experts only

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    Default Re: Group dynamics and complications

    You need to interact with with both of them to keep them both there and prevent the friend taking the target. Gradually give the target more attention and kino with the target. It will give a subliminal message to all who your target is.

    On mystery's point, i believe it a good tactic. It is up to the amount of attention you give to either girl. If you approach the friend first then the target is not the focus of the attention. then later when you bring her into it more she will be more open to kino and to you. Clearly if he target is leaving before you get to her you need to recalibrate and spend less time on the friend and move onto the target faster!

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    Default Re: Group dynamics and complications

    yea. So do you recommend going from one girl to the next? cause mystery advised first ignoring the girl you want. But thats where the risk comes in of her getting frustrated and leaving. Sounds like it would be better to try to entertain them both at the same time. But of course that is a bigger task. Ive always just talked to both mainly, and sometimes dont know how to zero in on the one I want. Luckily if the situation is right it happens naturally,b ut the idea is to be in control of course.

    Lol and what if you want them both? haha. I'm a serious polygamist so I ideally want to learn how to be with like lots of women. Like lots and lots. King Solomon lots.


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