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Thread: HB9-K-Closed-Failing slowly

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    Default HB9-K-Closed-Failing slowly

    Any advice appreciated on this one.

    Met a girl - she's a 9 with an 11 resume. Well off. Going to med school. 25 (I'm 31) and a decent snowboarder/surfer (with body to fit).

    Been on a couple dates. First night dinner. 2nd night hockey game. In between we casually met up for some epic snowboarding in the mountains. Long story short, she was there with her room mate and friends, I was there with my friends. Couldn't close, so ended up going home with my friends instead of her.

    I think she's hung up on her x boyfriend. Pretty boy. Pilot. I'm slowly loosing this one. Becoming needy. Trying to fight it but have no idea what to do. Help needed.

    Advice appreciated

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    Default Re: HB9-K-Closed-Failing slowly

    IMO, i do not make a serious move until she is 3/4 months into her breakup

    1) keep ur experiences fun, polite, and rely on ur PUA knowledge
    2) let her know ur interested, but do not keep pressing/be needy.
    2b) women dislike pressure and she is already confused trying to get over her ex
    3) u must slowly win her over. u do not want it where u slept with her n become her rebound or see her back with her ex next day.

    ur dates are good, but it's so important to use ur PUA knowledge on her. u have such a leg up and u don't seem to use it.

    example:
    chick crack - personality tests - KINO lightly (get her use to touch) - ESP - NEGs - text routines... etc.

    also - accept that u can lose her... because u r putting tol much success on a risky girl ATM.

    GL, man.^^

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    Default Re: HB9-K-Closed-Failing slowly

    also...

    1) please look around for other options.
    2) more important is that u look to be friends with ur options even if u can't close
    3) keep things fun - polite - PUA a ur options so ur not relegated to worrying over one

    in my experience,
    the are MANY MANY interesting women out there. every girl has a story and u will find a good number with success stories.

    ur current sounds great, but u r becoming hung up on her and u will only lose out if u become too needy.... u will not be able to keep things fun n polite.

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    Default Re: HB9-K-Closed-Failing slowly

    Thanks YokiTran. You helped cool my mind a bit with your support. I played it cool this week. I'm doing as you suggest, easing off on the pressure. She was supposed to be my date to a work Christmas party but instead I'm going to take another girl from work. As we decided it probably wouldn't be that much fun anyways. Anyhow, starting to feel better about the situation.


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