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    Default Kiss Close attempt fail

    I invited a girl, who I am possibly friend zoned with, over to my house to "study". She came and the entire time we were laughing and having fun, we were sitting pretty close, I kino'd her. Touched her thigh a few times, whispered in her ear, looked at her lips a ton, sometimes paused and just looked at her eyes and lips. I was just trying to up the sexual tension. I threw in a few push pulls too. At first she was sitting relatively to the outside of her chair away from me, but as the time went on she sat in the center of the chair, closer to me, and she was touching her hair a TON. I wanted to kiss her, but since I am possibly friend zoned I went safe and did the Mystery kiss close and I whispered in her ear, would you like to kiss me? She said no, I said I didn't say you could. She laughed pretty hard after I said that and we continued studying and I continued doing the triangular gaze and did a bit more push pull.
    After I asked the first time, even though she said no rather abruptly, her body language didn't shift at all and she didn't even move away from me, so a little later I tried again. She said no again and I responded the same way. Still no shift in body language, still sitting rather close to her.

    Should I next this girl or try to get a real date with her or something? Maybe I should have tried to get our legs touching before I asked.

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    Just so you know you were very beta on the mystery close "would you like to kiss?"

    NO NO NO

    "you are definitely thinking about kissing me right now" you see how that is more assertive?

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    Fuck the mystery close. Shoulda just gone for it without saying anything sounds like it was a done deal.

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    The mystery kiss close isn't really necessary wjen you've developed as much comfort as you seem to have done. She came to your house, that's a lot of comfort. It just can't work. Like Sonny said, just go for it. Women respond to emotion and she would have probably gotten caught up in the moment. Good luck, bro.

    : GeMiNi :&

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    fark. Well thanks guys you all gave me some more confidence about the situation. Any advice on how I should ask her for a real date, the language I should use, and the logistics I should plan for?

    Also edit: I wanted to make sure that she doesn't think that she's got me after me asking for the kiss. So I texted her a little bit and used some push pull, and I disqualified her saying she's like a sister. She asked if thats good or bad. How should I respond?

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    reply with another NEG.

    example: my sister is the sweetest and most fun girl i know... but she can also be a little brat.

    i think pressing for a second kiss DLV'ed u... but it's fine. it seems she doesn't know what she wants either and hasn't written u off when she asked u if her being like ur sister is bad.

    don't be pressured into K-Close... that is not the holy grail.

    1) when u boldly escalated as far as u could, and got resistance.
    2) auto scale back one level and work back up SLOWLY

    keep up ur PUA - and she will eventually fold. don't worry, she likes u.

    GL

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    Thanks, if I shouldn't push for the K close right now, what is my goal?

    Also what should I do if I go for K close and it fails

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    ur goal is what u want.

    if u do want to K-close, then u have to work slow to it....

    1) at start - be bold
    2) discover her stop point
    3) scale back - work towards goal skillfully

    example:
    say she let u kiss and u move to rub her n get her wet
    but she halts u on penetration.
    u scale back one step to kiss and continue KINO her
    --// maybe she will not let u lay her, but now u kno how far u can go n what to work for nex time

    GL

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    i like using this approach because u NEVER know how much u can get away with within her comfort level.

    we're not trying to molest her... use seduction and care - watch her - she will tell u verbal/physically her stop point.

    then use ur normal game to move forward.

    keep it cool - like it's natural... u need a strong frame to be this bold.

    at start u will fail - like all new things... but it ill become ur norm - like an open u use often. ur just opening strong.

    utube - PUA Keychain

    Cheers.^^

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    Default Re: Kiss Close attempt fail

    Hmm, okay. Can you clarify point 3 more than "work toward goal skillfully"

    Let's say she agrees to go somewhere with me, I go in for a kiss and she turns her head or denies me in some way.


    I would then just continue kino, slowly build it up more intimately, starting with arms, etc, and then gradually going to legs and then face/neck and then try to kiss her again on the same night?


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