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    Post Very confusing situation

    ok so i been talkin to this girl for the past 4 days n the conversations hav been great but two days ago i noticed that she was very distant...i had sent one regular text sayin hey n i noticed that she read it but she never responded...it was very confusing but very funny...that has been happening to me alot lately n idk y lol....i was starting to get the impression that she was ignoring me cuz during the times that i text her n not respond she would post up things up on instagram so i no she noticed the 2 texts n the phone call lol n thats when i realized that i was being ignored lol i found it funny cuz like i said before its happend to me a few times before....i get comfortable wit a girl n all of a sudden poof gone....any way i sent her a text n this is wat happened:

    ME: uummm did i do something wrong

    HB8: nahh i just havnt felt like talkin

    (WHEN SHE WROTE THAT I WAS JUST LIKE WTF LMFAO)

    ME: lol dam u go cold turkey when u get that way

    HB8: lol eyy its nothing personel i just didnt feel like talkin

    ME: nah i got u....hit me up when u feel like talking i guess

    *i noticed that she read n didnt respond*

    i really cant figure out how we go from having good conversations to all of a sudden not wanting to talk very confusing..i just need any advice on wat i can do even though i feel like i should just freeze her out n after that lil convo that we had i havnt hit her up n i dont plan to either

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    don't go analyzing her... u don't need to.

    play it cool - when she wants to talk - she'll let u know... u already let her know where she stands - obviously she stands higher when let her know she can go cold turkey n u notice it.... don't bother with pointing out negatives unless ur in a relationship.

    maybe someone beat u to her or maybe she has issues or maybe ur not interesting... but u kno what, u don't have to worry abt that.... STOP doing it.^^

    u need to have the mentality that u could care less... she's lucky to speak to u. -- look at her from a higher plane.... do u get what i'm saying.?

    it doesn't matter how funny u think u r... if someone doesn't get u - u can't change their mind so stop worrying.

    ok - i hope u get the point.^^

    be cool - be funny - if she responds the game continues.

    don't forget to run ur PUA knowledge.

    cheers.!

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    thats the thing i kept it cool n funny...we talked about anything no silence i actually wanted to meet up wit her next week...but when i noticed her being distant thats when my mentality went to WOOOOOOW ur not that serious n i diffidently started looking from a higher plane...but i decided just to freeze her out just ignore her if she decides to text me then she dose if not then hey it was a fun convo while it lasted lol....but i do need to get my pua game up cuz this is like the 19th time it happens lol yea i suck rite now lol

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    ur respond with a gold attitude - just keep it up...

    when i look back... girls found me funny "after" i ran PUA stuff on them. i guess if u can pique their interest level ~~ that ur showing things that no other guy does, they become more receptive to u being goofy.

    most of my success come from personality tests - and then i pepper in stories - esp - etc... the personality tests r a great way to get her to open up to agree to things (talk abt herself) and gives u insights on her u can find commonality with.

    i think its real important u find commonality and have them talk abt themselves... for some reason their women brain convinces them that ur the one. *shrugs*

    btw - i hit up all kinds of girls... it's the one that eventually gets u that makes all those fails worth it.

    and ur fail rate will eventually go down... then again, don't worry abt it. keep plugin away.!

    cheers.

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    i guess all the fails well eventually turn its self around lol i cant wait lol.....i felt like we shared a few things in commonality but there was things that she would say that she liked to do that wer new to me but wer very interesting to try...i let her talk about her self alot showing her that im interested.....but she threw it all off when she hit me wit the i didnt feel like talkin thats when the mood just changed n i was just like next lol.....i havnt done much goin out since i hav been studyin for my big test which is next week but once im done im gonna hav more free time n im gonna do some traveling

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    in time - women will sell themselves to u... and u will find they will agree with everything u say - including admitting that they wanna F*ck u now and have ur babies (no lie).

    take whatever they say with a grain of salt, because no women matches u perfectly in the beginning.

    u will have ur disagreements, misunderstandings, hard fights over time... its important to look for one with good supportive parents and one who can keep her cool in intense situations (KCCO)... she who seeks to work things out with a calm voice is ur gem.

    don't give her too many points... she cleans - she cooks - she's intelligent - etc... will not tell u that she will listen to ur POV.

    but that's another subject u'll care abt when u find ur gf.

    GL

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    very tru and thank u....im just gonna leave it as is wat ever happens happens her lost lol

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    I'm on my iPhone so I can't highlight exactly where u were being needy, but 2 texts and an unanswered phone call shows this haha and then u go and send her a text asking her If YOU did something WRONG? well yeah clinging is a bit wrong, some girls like it some don't ,

    yoki is right with the mind set, don't really give a sh1r what she thinks, and your texts were probay boring if she didn't feel like replying to them, with mine I always give them something to reply about and they do, read up on texting guides

    and be alpha

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    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    I'm on my iPhone so I can't highlight exactly where u were being needy, but 2 texts and an unanswered phone call shows this haha and then u go and send her a text asking her If YOU did something WRONG? well yeah clinging is a bit wrong, some girls like it some don't ,

    yoki is right with the mind set, don't really give a sh1r what she thinks, and your texts were probay boring if she didn't feel like replying to them, with mine I always give them something to reply about and they do, read up on texting guides

    and be alpha
    yea i probably shouldve just let it be after i noticed that she read the one text n never answered but idk i just couldnt believe i was about to hav another lost lol n yea after i spoke to her n she told me that i was just like lol my mind set changed completely im just like wat ever next lol....but i hav learned

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    Default Re: Very confusing situation

    i'm about to go out to dinner but in the few minutes i have, don't woryr about if they've read it or not, it's pointless to bum over, only figure out why they didn't reply, so next time you can fix that :-)

    ill get back to you later (y) <----is an afc thing to say, but since you're in my friendzone it's alright to say :P LOL


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