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    Default A new breed of girl I need advice please

    Hi guys so I met this girl about two weeks ago and we started to hit it off great the only thing is she said she is old school which means she doesn't have a Facebook and she doesn't like to text so the best way of communication is through the phone. So I met up with her last weekend and I thought it was just for coffee but then she said do you want to grab dinner I said sure that after dinner she asked if I wanted to come back to her place to hang out I said okay we just watched a movie so I left. I hung out with her two days after just for a cup coffee And we ended up going back to her place and we had a crazy make out session. So I asked her when I can see her again and she said the following weekend because she is busy with work and school. I met up with her yesterday and we went to a jazz concert we got along great Went back to her place again made out for a while and she fell asleep on me and I left around 2 AM. This is where it starts to get confusing I sent her a text when I got home last night and she never replied. I figured she was sleeping so I left it alone. I sent her a text this morning saying good morning and she never replied back. I decided to call her a few hours later and she picked up and we had a discussion about various things I don't know if I'm thinking too into it but she never text me I always have to text her she never calls me I have to call her but if I sent her a text today and she never replied back but she picks up the phone when I call that doesn't make sense. I don't know what to do I feel like I am putting all the effort into this and I can't stop thinking about her and it's stressing me out

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    My first piece of advice is that you need to text her less or not at all, you call her!

    She clearly has her reason as to why she doesn't like texting and facebook (I hate it) that being said. She likes to communicate a certain way that seems obsolete nowadays...so get on her level. You don't have to erase your facebook or quit texting, but you should call her more often. Also take into account you should be leading think about old school, men always led.

    I hope this sheds some light, Good luck
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    please break ur sentences up into paragraphs - make ur thoughts easier on the eyes.^^;

    don't sweat what she's thinking... and stop pestering her so much. u also allow her to work ur schedule - DLV after DLV. >.<

    vary ur communication -
    end all ur convos on highs -
    short funny and sweet -
    and don't make plans till ur ready to actually go out that day.

    when u ask - good chance she will reject... but if she is interested she will off another day... if not, then freeze a bit till next day.

    there are text guides on forums... look them up to give u an idea how to control ur text game.^^


    GL

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    btw... this girl isn't a new breed. u haven't dated enough yet - and i can tell from ur needy behavior.

    but that's why this forum is here and i hope ur ready to apply urself in improvement.!

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    DUde,

    uhm, Im kind of pissed off no one on this forum has given you the information you need. Txting, calling her blah blah blah..... all that shit doesn't matter.

    The reason she might be LOSING INTEREST is because you are not giving her your PENIS!!!!!! Plain and simple bro.

    YOu talk about this girl being old fashioned????? ...... What kind of old fashioned girl brings a guy home on the first date??? ....... She is of the NOW, she is a women who wants a MAN to take control of her...... I mean C'mon man, she has given you three, THREEEEEEE chances alone with her to Bang her and you haven't. On a primal subconscious level women take this as rejection and pull away..... Do you think girls just like bringing guys back to their house, make out and then be rude to them by not txting back??? NO, they're only pissed when they don't get satisfied...

    She has basically put it all on the table by inviting you over, and you didn't LEAD HER INTO SEX!!!!! ..... Its not like the movies where you go to hers and she rips off all her clothes. ITS NOT!!!...... ONce you guys hint at it, it up to YOU to progress with her and lead her into SEX. Even though she may want it more than you , she won't be the one who escalates. Its a MANS JOB.

    I recommend you read VIN DE CARLOS ESCALATION LADDER. It will teach you how to Escalate properly which you clearly need.

    Sorry if I came down a little hard on you bro, But I think you needed a little slap in the face to get your head back in the game....

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    Also bud,

    I just read your other posts.. I know how you feel. Ive always been kind of hesitant towards sex. Ive been nerves, anxious, afraid etc.... Once you do it a bunch that all goes away...

    It also kind of weird but we live in a society of women who are constantly bombarded with sexual repression and deemed "sluts" or "ho's" if they have sex quickly. So us as guys, think that we should wait etc etc... but it all BS..... Girls wanna get bedded quickly... and If you wait to long, they will lose attraction towards you.... trust me, been there done that.... Somy advice is push through your fears and proceed towards sex fast.

    cheers

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    Quote Originally Posted by inter1010 View Post
    DUde,

    uhm, Im kind of pissed off no one on this forum has given you the information you need.
    Yeah, a bunch of us have been on "dark week" - it's a whole thing.

    Txting, calling her blah blah blah..... all that sh1t doesn't matter.

    The reason she might be LOSING INTEREST is because you are not giving her your PENIS!!!!!! Plain and simple bro.

    YOu talk about this girl being old fashioned????? ...... What kind of old fashioned girl brings a guy home on the first date??? ....... She is of the NOW, she is a women who wants a MAN to take control of her...... I mean C'mon man, she has given you three, THREEEEEEE chances alone with her to Bang her and you haven't. On a primal subconscious level women take this as rejection and pull away..... Do you think girls just like bringing guys back to their house, make out and then be rude to them by not txting back??? NO, they're only pissed when they don't get satisfied...

    She has basically put it all on the table by inviting you over, and you didn't LEAD HER INTO SEX!!!!! ..... Its not like the movies where you go to hers and she rips off all her clothes. ITS NOT!!!...... ONce you guys hint at it, it up to YOU to progress with her and lead her into SEX. Even though she may want it more than you , she won't be the one who escalates. Its a MANS JOB.

    I recommend you read VIN DE CARLOS ESCALATION LADDER. It will teach you how to Escalate properly which you clearly need.

    Sorry if I came down a little hard on you bro, But I think you needed a little slap in the face to get your head back in the game....
    YES, YES, YES to all of this! That first date was the time to do it. Don't get hung up on thinking that you 'should' wait or even 'should' escalate - if the mood feels right then just do it!

    P.s. Use your PUA skills to set up a mood that feels right.
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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    All great advice so idk what the next step is i spoke to her on the briefly sunday and she said she was using her phone as a gps and that if she can call me back I said sure and she never called me back. I text her this morning never replied so not sure what to do next i dont understand why people got to be shady like that lol, especially when i dont even know if i did anything wrong lol

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    QB

    ur putting too much thought abt it... she doesn't call or text, then so be it. u have ur own life, so live it... work other options.

    i know the feeling sucks, but liv isn't just handed to u, right.?

    gl.^^

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    Default Re: A new breed of girl I need advice please

    Your right! spoke with her on the phone kinda felt like i was wasting her time asked her if she is free this weekend said she had plans lol.owell guess onto the next one


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