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    Cashed Jerk is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Have i made things worse?

    Okay, i met this babe....and we starting texting. Texting was really fun, we gave ourselves nicknames and she was also responded very fast. Second day, she wasn't really responding very fast but shr sent me a text before going to bed. And, i made sure i didn't text her the following day. I sent her a text yesterday but i had to come up with a good opener before and that was "Guess what? I ate Persian food today" cos she's Persian, she didn't reply on time.But when she finally did i made her luagh (lmaoo), i sent her another text and she didn't reply, so i said "it seems someone doesn't have my time today " She replied 30 mins later saying "Sorry I was out and i just got it now " And initially she told me that she hadn't paid her phone bills so she was using the internet to text. Well, to cut the long story short, i didn't reply and now I feel like texting her. The thing is I'm scared i might lose her just like i lost some girl after our first date. I've been scared to ask her on a date and i really don't want to screw things up.

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    Default Re: Have i made things worse?

    When you sent the text saying she didn't seem to have time for you, you basically gave all the value to her. She knows you are attracted and into her, so you might as well just go for it. Since she knows you're into her, you are only hurting your chances the longer you wait to ask her out.

    It's clear you understand some text game, but in the future, don't look for response from a woman. You are the one that is supposed to be strong, independent and in control, but by looking for attention, you are only dlv'ing yourself.

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    Default Re: Have i made things worse?

    cos she's Persian, she didn't reply on time.
    there's a set time now? why didn't i hear about this?? no there isn't :P

    Express's advice is gold, don't underestimate it

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    Cashed Jerk is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Have i made things worse?

    But i don't understand how she knows I'm into her...i never told her i like her..

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    Default Re: Have i made things worse?

    "it seems someone doesn't have my time today "
    this

    and obtaining a number shows interest for both parties

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    Default Re: Have i made things worse?

    You are showing interest... people pick up on the small things. eg texting her back quickly is showing interest. Texting her often is showing interest.

    The biggest mistake here is the "it seems like somebody doesn't have time for me today " thats a very needy text. It tells her that you are desperately waiting to hear back from her.

    As for losing her you need to remember that all girls are replaceable in the long run. If you get too invested and hung up on her to early then you will blow it.

    part of attraction is keeping her guessing, thinking " does he like me?"

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    Default Re: Have i made things worse?

    Get some other girls on the go and you won't worry about when she's texting back anymore :L it works

    Linking x


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