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Thread: Trouble holding their interest on 2nd or 3rd date

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    Default Trouble holding their interest on 2nd or 3rd date

    I recently moved to Portland and have been enjoying the population of local single women. I've number closed on just about every target I've approached. I don't really try to get them back to my place for two reasons. 1. Logistics. I live about 15 miles out of the city, and 2. My game just isn't there yet. So I've been dating a couple of these girls and they seem to want me to succeed (i.e. they're attracted to me), but their interest seems to fizzle after our 2nd or 3rd date. I get caught up in boring lines of questioning like "what do you do at work"", "have you traveled much?". To me it seems like I need to work on escalating, but I'm looking for some advice...

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    Default Re: Trouble holding their interest on 2nd or 3rd date

    i'm gonna do guesswork abt u - cause u wrote generally and not detailed.

    1) u can # close n get dates -
    --// so u r able to raise their interest fine

    2) u feel fizzle 2nd or 3rd date -
    --// did u run out of PUA material.?
    --// did u get lazy and not use PUA.?
    --// did u just wing it/be ur true self.?

    3) u find they question u more
    --// y r they not talkin abt themselves still.?
    --// girls luv to talk abt themselves n this is
    --// the stage u find commonality to connect

    4) did u consider that it's not their interest that fizzles,
    --// that it may be urs.?
    --// if u notice ur dates fizzles and asking u questions,
    --// ur dates r becoming predictavble and boring

    HOW TO SPICE IT UP
    1) u wanna keep ur energy always high, both for u n ur date
    --// i like to look at my date as a game. this is wrong to do,
    --// but i'm interested in seeing their different reactions
    --// and analyzing them
    2) search forums for games/esp/tests/etc...
    3) really probe for what she likes.
    --// i like X cause it makes me feel X, what abt u.?
    --// o man, u too.? bond with her.
    4) KINO with palm reading... it's my bread n butter

    let me kno how ur next date goes.

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    Default Re: Trouble holding their interest on 2nd or 3rd date

    hey bud,

    Have sex with them.

    The first date may be too soon, but the second date may be too late. Think about this.

    If a girl you meet goes out on a date with you, its only yours to lose(not have sex). She is rooting for you to be the one who beds her. She wants to have sex as much as you do. If your scared or not into it, then move on.

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    Default Re: Trouble holding their interest on 2nd or 3rd date

    hmmmm... good point INTER. i've never dated that long before not getting significant result. u should know after second date where u stand really.

    it wouldn't hurt to relegate those to texting till they show true interest.

    in the end, u have to assign a value to what u feel is a successful experience is... if ur not into sex, then don't worry. u didn't fail.

    but i would look at significant result 2nd n 3rd... ur just wasting money and time now.

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    Default Re: Trouble holding their interest on 2nd or 3rd date

    Thx for the response guys. I made some progress this week. Had a couple dates and effectively used kino and had them qualifying. Feeling good about my improvements. Still need to round out the other aspects of my game though..newbie challenge soon.


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