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Thread: Sexy but no sex for me.

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    Unhappy Sexy but no sex for me.

    I've been getting this an awful lot. I've been talking to women who says that I am gorgeous and sexy, but they never want sex with me. Is there something I am doing wrong? I am not sure what to say on this.


    So if I have multiple women talking about how gorgeous I am, and they don't want any sex with me, what is it I am doing wrong? I did a lot of things. I tried to be the nice guy, and it fails. I tried to turn up the sexual tension by doing light touches, and flirting, and it failed. I tried to be even more aggressive, and it fails. I don't smell, my breath smells great. I am always clean cut. If I tried to make girls more comfortable, then they will get to comfortable and become my friend. What should I do?

    I tried negging, being funny, you name it. Nothing. They don't ever want to sleep with me. Not matter how hot they consider me...

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    Default Re: Sexy but no sex for me.

    did u let them know that u r not interested in being dating them.? that u are not around them to be a friend.?

    and have u created enough commonality for the to connect.?

    ... i'm curious abt ur luck myself. >.<

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    Default Re: Sexy but no sex for me.

    How do I let them know that I am not looking for friendship?

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    Default Re: Sexy but no sex for me.

    by all means i'm no expert but the thing that rings the most here is
    I tried to turn up the Sexual Tension by doing light touches,
    i'm curious on whether your kino is forced or natural, and do you have to think about touching them before you do it? maybe consider touching them for longer periods i'm not suggesting a palm read but that is an option

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    Default Re: Sexy but no sex for me.

    u tell her ur only interested in dating her...
    if she says she's not ready or is not interested,
    -// u just let her kno it's ok - but ur only interested in wanting to know what she is like on a date.
    -// let her kno u'll think abt being friends if the date doesn't work out

    don't pressure her or be stern - give her ur thoughts straight and polite.

    example;
    YOU: Jen, we're connecting on some funky way. listen, let's hang out

    HER: i dunno, i'm not ready for a serious relationship

    YOU: that's cool... but if we hang out, it's going to be as a date. i just want to know what the chemistry is like with the real Jen.

    HER: can't we just be friends.?

    YOU: sure, but only after one date... i don't want to waste my time not knowing if we are meant to be.

    from here, she'll continue speaking to u - since u were not mean and that u politely let her know how u want this relationship to be... she may bot see u right away - so just be polite and funny till she decides.


    does this help.?

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    Default Re: Sexy but no sex for me.

    Thanks, I'll give it a shot next Friday, when I am out with friends again.

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    Default Re: Sexy but no sex for me.

    So far, all of your advices are working. I appreciate it...

    Now your advice is getting a bit out of control. For some reason the entire school knows that I am amazing in bed. Now I can't seem to get my work done because the moment one girl is walking out the door, another is coming in, and I am having sex all over again. I am not bragging or tooting my own horn. This is more of a curse than anything. I appreciate it, now I have new issues that arises.


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