I do stealth attraction. I DHV with adorable asshole and sometimes with confidant or hot girls it esclates almost into an argument. The idea is to wind them up and then keep changing it up. But and I do that but once a girl puts her guard up it is hard for her to let it down and this esclates into a confrantional situation.
How can I get them to let their guard down again? How can I stop the spireling into an arguement? What have you guys done in the past to diffuse this kind of situation?