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    The_Gypsy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default DHV almost escaltes into confrontation

    I do stealth attraction. I DHV with adorable asshole and sometimes with confidant or hot girls it esclates almost into an argument. The idea is to wind them up and then keep changing it up. But and I do that but once a girl puts her guard up it is hard for her to let it down and this esclates into a confrantional situation.

    How can I get them to let their guard down again? How can I stop the spireling into an arguement? What have you guys done in the past to diffuse this kind of situation?

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    Default Re: DHV almost escaltes into confrontation

    When you piss a girl off you have to be ready to quickly change back to a nice guy. Make a quick apology and then say that you were just joking, but at the same time act like it is nothing. Dont neg too hard, and after negging be ready to win her back with genuiness and complimenting.
    When dealing with these kind of situations the most important thing is to read the emotions of a girl. Sometimes you will need to neg hard, but sometimes you wont have to neg at all, you need to read the situation.
    We never want to get into an argument when gaming. Who cares about being right or wrong. You should just focus on getting the girl into bed. If you want to change her view about something, why not wait until after you have had sex and she likes you.
    I actually dont think I am good at negging myself. I generally dont use it too much. This is probably why Im not sleeping with HB9 and HB10.

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    rs5096 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: DHV almost escaltes into confrontation

    Dude, if its not working stop doing it. Haven't seen stealth attraction but just the sound of it is creepy and if she has her guard up she doesn't see you as someone with higher value but more likely as someone who's an a*hole

    Rather stick to the fundamentals. Social comfort first. then attraction.

    So once the girl is hooked i.e. is contributing to conversation you can start the DHV with push pull or the like.

    rs5096

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    Default Re: DHV almost escaltes into confrontation

    So much methods out there. Do we really need so much?

    Well, but to the topic: If you screwed it, be it. Maybe apologice or pleasure meeting you and open another set. Running a new set is easier than solving your mistakes.


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