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Thread: Going too fast

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    Default Going too fast

    So I was texting a girl who I met off a dating site and after about 5 texts I jokingly invited her over to watch a movie tomorrow night since my flat mate was out. She didn't reply till this morning and now that she has she wants to come over . I didn't really want it to go this fast how do I slow it down or should I avoid her or what. Her being so willing to hook up with a complete stranger scares me.

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    Default Re: Going too fast

    What makes you think she wants to hook up with you? Maybe she just likes to get to know people in real life and not over text?

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    Default Re: Going too fast

    Because she asked if my bed is big enough for two

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    Default Re: Going too fast

    Dude, she could easily just be flirting with you I can't tell for sure from this much info, you could easily just meet up with her and if she try's to move to fast then don't let her, your the man and your in charge thing is if she wants it to go this fast and your not comfortable with that then you slowing it down doesn't change her being willing for it to happen if ya get me? Whereas she might just be flirting and that won't happen, so see what happens and if you don't like it then just cut her off and move on

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    Default Re: Going too fast

    Quote Originally Posted by wadedo View Post
    Because she asked if my bed is big enough for two
    ha ha either your text game is farking tight or she is a lose cannon.

    Look if she is a HB and she seems to be clean then let her come over and check her out. If she seems clean and decent enough then f-close her, otherwise you can just send her on her merry little way. Just because she came to your place doesnt mean you are forced to do anything with her, You could always ask her to leave.

    You never know what could happen and you could also look back on this and wonder what could of happened

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    Default Re: Going too fast

    Let it happen, man. Use protection and you'll be fine. Don't pass up opportunities like this. It'll boost your confidence and you can go for girls that are more of a chase with success ;]
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Going too fast

    She ended up trying to friend zone me lol, so i negged her about being really short and since im 6'4" I told her all of me would be too big for her lol. Now she is desperately wanting to meet up with me but I'm not going to let her, because its really fun messing with her now that she is the one who wants me. Thanks for the advice every one learnt so much


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