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    Default Shit-test in yoga class?

    I went to a yoga class today, and this hot girl puts her mat down next to me. I'm thinkin, ok, that's probably an ioi, especially considering there were many other spots she could have chosen. So I wait for her to give me another ioi, eye contact, something. Instead, she just spends the entire time playing on her phone, doing pre-class stretches, etc, and doesn't once look in my direction or in any way indicate she's interested.

    It was a great class, and afterwards I turned to her with a big smile and exclaimed, "that was great, no?" She replied with a nice smile, "ya." I said, "you have a really nice practice," she was good and has obviously practiced for years. She smiled again and said "thank you," and abruptly walked away.

    Now, I assumed she wasn't interested, because if she were she would have given me an opportunity to extend the conversation. As such, I didn't bother trying any further. But perhaps she was just giving me a shit-test, to see if I'd persist and keep going for it. Opinions? Next time, should I just keep going? Or were my initial intuitions right, in which case I would have wasted my time had I chased her?

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    Default Re: Shit-test in yoga class?

    Not going to be harsh but essentially you did a lot wrong. First of all you are correct in interpreting her putting the mat next to you as an IOI (proximity). This is not always the case, but enough for you to proceed. Now you had all this awkward silence until class started (shows lack of confidence, not very alpha DLV). You should have opened right there. Something indirect, maybe tease her a little bit about being so close "Hey I like my space when I stretch " or just regular chit chat.

    After you opened (FINALLY) but continued to immediately compliment her. You telegraphed your intentions and she walked away. You should have done a cocky/funny opener. " I can tell this is your first class:" or something like that.

    Good luck,

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    Default Re: Shit-test in yoga class?

    i think fuser pretty much summed this one up. simply stated you needed to talk to her as soon as she came over to put her mat down. any interest she had for you was lost when you complimented her and had a rather boring convo. you gotta keep it light and flirty

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    Default Re: sh1t-test in yoga class?

    Cool, thanks for the advice. I'll know for next time...


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