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    Default WHAT TO DO when you text a woman after a good first date with kiss close!

    Hey Guys! So Im in a bit of a confusing situation and needed help. So I went with this woman on a first date, prior to the meet she was really into me via phone and texting so I knew it COULD get physical on the first date. SO we met and yes she was shy at first but her body language was positive and got her talking about rated R subjects to playing the questions game and asking where the craziest place she had sex was. KINO was there, I qualified her, then after the second venue she told me her cousin had invited her to a bbq so we grabbed one more drink and she had to go. Before she left we kissed closed, mini makeout but nothing heavy, I told her I had a good time and she said the same thing so it ended well. The next day i texted her ” Hey sugar buns I enjoyed our X bar adventure with you last night had a blast conversation was great, you’re a great kisser” Now its been a day and hasnt responded. Probably logistics that made her unable to respond, but what is my next move here? wait a couple days and send her some playful funny text then shoot for a second date? Need advice here since normally girls respond to that text or text me first “i had a fun time” so just wondering where to take it from there if I know shes interested but havent heardfrom her.

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    Default Re: WHAT TO DO when you text a woman after a good first date with kiss clos

    unless i had sex, i personally dial down the sweet words/XXX terms. even if she warmly responds, i like to wait for them to initiate that stuff.

    this is because
    -// 1. she may not be intoxicated anymore
    -// 2. may feel regrets
    -// 3. may have BFs or EXs on the line she's loyal to
    -// 4. her text persona is different from her live one
    etc etc...

    when u engage - hint or coax her where u want to go - trick her slut shield.

    it's like this...
    u ever had someone THINK they are chummy with u overstep ur boundaries.?

    u can be still friendly and funny... and it won't hurt u to let them get dirty first.

    let me kno how it goes. ^.~

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    Default Re: WHAT TO DO when you text a woman after a good first date with kiss clos

    and ur text is good otherwise.^^

    keep the high energy.

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    Default Re: WHAT TO DO when you text a woman after a good first date with kiss clos

    Thanks YOKItran good pointers on her leading the way into sexual territory first. I try to keep my texts playful and evoke good emotions in them when I text them. Now this whole good first date then her. Going MIA is new to me since I usually get a first text from them about how fun our date was.. we went out Saturday and I plan on texting her again tomorrow if she doesn't send me one first.. any recommendations on what a good follow up text can be?

    Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: WHAT TO DO when you text a woman after a good first date with kiss clos

    all ur texts lead in with high energy and make her go "i wanna know wht happens"

    and u end most ur texts suddenly on cliff hangers.

    same pattern.^^

    just get let time build a bond and u cn ease up a bit if u feel u can't always come with high energy.


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