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    Default [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    Hey guys,

    quick overview:

    Girl: extremely cute, but hasn't really seen anyone at all , even through her college years. I know the reason for this is because she rejects guys left and right. (VIRGIN? most def )

    ME: I'm confident, attractive, good with laughs and talking - so i'm a lil confused as to why she is rejecting me


    She is a friend of a friend and we have a lot of mutual friends. I met her here and there and talked for a bit, but it wasn't untill recently that I got her number and started initiating via text. Our entire texting thread is below: would like some critiques!

    ME: Hey cutieface i got a question for ya
    HER: ?
    ME: who would win in a contest between a rabbit and a smurf ( saw this on here, thought it was smart, wanted to guage her response, boring/creative/imaginative?)
    HER: what the heck? haha
    ME: use your imagination
    HER: smurf

    few days pass..

    ME: taking bailey to the dogpark next week, you should come
    HER: KK
    ME: when you free
    HER: IDK have to babysit
    ME: bring the kid , it can play with bailey
    HER: Hahaha, they aren't good arnd big dogs

    few days pass...
    ME: tomorrow, best weather of the month, meet at the park
    HER: I can't, got plans

    two scenarios:
    Look, if she really has plans cool, how do i proceed?
    Obviously, she doesnt have plans, but I want to wittily call her out on rejecting fun guys in order to get her to date me, how do i proceed?

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    Default Re: [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    she's blowing you off. find other girls to go out with, moooooove ooonnnn! she is waisting your time.

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    Default Re: [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    u didn't build enough connection

    when u asked her out n she fell thru

    u didnt rebuild connection or create chase.

    then u asked her again - u got a worst answer.

    freeze her and check forums for text game.

    i like the smurf bit... u should do more stuff like that.

    GL.^^

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    Default Re: [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    its a simple matter. he didn't create enough attraction. not to mention that his text convo is boring and you asked her out toooo many times without building attraction.

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    Default Re: [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    i don't know meteora... this girl has not had sex or dated anyone in her 22 years

    i'm pretty good with attraction in person... but I wasn't surprised she blew me off considering her track record. if i just got her one one date, my personality and looks will do the rest. I probably should have scheduled a date when I saw her in person?

    I read the text game post the guy linked earlier.. but i would like some examples of what i could have said over text to build the "chase" or strengthen attraction . everythin jus looks like unemotional words on a screen to me

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    Default Re: [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    look man, you can only ask a girl to go places with you soo many times before she sees you as a weak, pathetic, needy guy. you've asked her out like three times in a row. do you have no self-respect at all???? you NEED to invest in other woman before comming back to this one. she's cold and she's not going to go out with you no matter how many times you ask her out.

    but in the future when asking girls out try http://www.puaforums.com/how-ask-gir...html#post73909

    but the simple fact with this girl is that you showed tooo much interest tooo fast and you didn't create enough attraction before asking her out.

    as for text game it is no different than talking in person, if you can't make jokes and have fun convo's in person then your text game won't be any better than your real life game.

    btw, (a little pro tip for texting) you can make the words on the screen come to life by using emoticons ( ), pauses (.....),just kiddings ( jk ) and lol's. they give the words more meaning (and yes it is ok to write lol after a joke you make to show her that it is a joke)

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    Default Re: [REJECTED]- I'm not backing down need YOUR help

    @Meteor

    i don't think long pauses work... yesterday, a fabulous HB9 tripped into my crotch and....








    ... hmmmm.... i guess it could work.?



    jk.^^;


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