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    Cali4nialove is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Smile NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    This is my first time posting on this website so hi. For the past few weeks I have developed a strong case of onetits for a girl that is in 3 of my classes. In two of them she sits next to me. In another, she sits across the class from me. I'm guessing she either has one interest for me or I am friend zoned. She gives small IOI's like we have eye contact a lot hen she sits across from me. Second, I never fail at telling a joke or story that makes her laugh. Actually I'm known to be the really funny guy by her and her friends. Or like last week we went to an ASB ice skating event where she knows almost everyone but spent 90% of the event with me ice skating (holding hands, but that's normal in skating I guess). (Should I be mad that I didn't make a move that day?). And when we were sitting she asked if her ass was wet and stood up and turned it to me (indicating she tripped earlier but I never saw her trip). Should I also be mad I didn't slap it or anything and just said naw its good

    The part I hate is though she spends lots of time with me, talks a lot with me, eye contact a lot, sings I guess. It bothers me when she interests in other men. Suchh as when she sits across me, she sits next to this guy she talks ALOT to and is always smiling and facing him and turned to him. We all know this kills people with one itis.

    What should I do? I really want to build up a level of attraction between us.

    Thanks (:

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    at the height of ur convod - turn ur back on her... or get distracted n do something natural.

    tell her a fantastic story and not end it

    when u engage ur class - focus on a different girl

    u have options - ur just too busy looking at one.

    gL

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    Good advice man thanks. Anything else I can do to build attraction.

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    Building attraction is easy... It's called "Flirting". (Teasing bantering in a playful way)



    The HARDER part is keeping the relationship in balance, so that it continues to grow.
    (Getting a girl is a piece of cake... KEEPING her takes real knowledge).



    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Building attraction is easy... It's called "Flirting". (Teasing bantering in a playful way)



    The HARDER part is keeping the relationship in balance, so that it continues to grow.
    (Getting a girl is a piece of cake... KEEPING her takes real knowledge).

    Stupid question. But since I've known her for a while now, how do I flirt without making it awkward

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    @T-Mal....

    man, that is the hardest part for me... keeping women in order. i feel so miserable because it feels like i'm with a different person in a relationship

    i've looked inward - and found i'm too damn nice. so i'm trying to learn how to be more assertive....

    oh man... *sigh*. i hate finding the one and then i'm wrong...... but they sell themselves so well sometimes...... sell dreams like car salesmen.

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    I'm newer to this but been in several situations and both found advice on here and experimented. When sitting with her, make sure she knows your intentions, depending on your situation, Kino, disqualifying, or both would be your best approach. Like Yoki said, keep her guessing and even though you're in classes with her, try not to be as easily accessible. We all know jealousy is a very powerful weapon. Don't let her catch you watching her talk to other guys but rather completely forget she is and despite the oneitis do your best to divert your attentions to other girls in the class. If you think you are friendzoned, then disqualifying her and possibly asking for advice on other girls would be you're best bet. You'll just have to experiment.

    AA

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    Default Re: NEED HELP::Bad case of oneitis and how to deal with it

    Just go out and get more girls..that will get your mind of the girl. Go and meet more girls that will help...I have done that a couple of times!


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