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Thread: Need to get over AA fast!!!

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    Default Need to get over AA fast!!!

    AA is killing me, for some reason I just get too nervous and fail to open a set time and time again! I could make eye contact with a girl and constantly get a smile but do nothing about it unless a friend introduces us or she herself ends up talking to me Its weird that i can comfort and close the deal like a beast! whenever anyone of my friends need a wing they ask me because i can in the end get the job done I want to get over my AA fast because i feel that once its gone my game would be completely solid and I can accomplish a lot more!

    My question is how do you get over AA fast, I want to be opening sets by myself by New Years! Is that possible?

    Any help is appreciated!!!!

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    Just do it. And by "it" I mean opening the set, not getting over AA. No one ever gets over AA, we all just get used to it. It will always be there, at first as a tight-in-your-stomach stumbling block, then as a tight-in-your-stomach thrilling launch point. You need to stop waiting for something to magically happen to make AA go away. It doesn't. You just need to get used to it. Waiting for yourself to be comfortable on an approach will earn you nothing, but having the balls to approach when you're nervous will earn you a lot. Don't hope to get over it, work to get used to it.
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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    i would say the easiest way to overcome AA is to start by talking to sales associates at stores they are always willing to talk to potential customers and they won't turn you down as long as you don't say anything thats overly offensive.

    once you get a little braver try talking to a car salesman (preferably female) at a car dealership and get her to let you take a car for a test drive. she will likely banter with you in an attempt to build some raport so she can make the sale. talk to her about anything you feel comfortable speaking about. then once your done with your lengthy convorsation she had with you, just tell her you aren't interested in the car she is trying to sell you and leave.

    once you can talk to hired guns (sales associates who get paid to talk to potential customers) you should at least feel more comfortable talking to people.

    try making approaches on ugs, try to "keep score" of how many approaches you make in a day. any approach is worth one point. every day document how many approaches you made and try to beat the previous days score. once you've done this for a month you can look back at your calender and count all your approaches. you will think "wow i approached 200 woman in a month, holy sh*t!" then you just need to think "why should i ever be afraid of making another approach? i already made a ton of them"

    the more approaches you make the more comfortable you will be at talking to complete strangers.

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    The quickest way to get over AA is A........for Alcohol. I'm serious. However, I don't advice this to non-drinkers who are not used to alcohol and may end up acting like idiots, but a couple of shots to relax after what could have been a long stressful day at work, will quickly let you forget about your worries and get you in the mood to chat to people.....just watch what you drink

    Another thing, I need you to honestly answer this question, what is giving me AA?! is it
    (A) Fear of Rejection (meaning that she will downright call you a loser and tell you no) or
    (B) Fear of Conversation Failure(of knowing what to say after the initial opener, running out of steam and not knowing how to make her attracted to you)

    I find that most people are actually afraid of B, which means that once you learn the dynamics of making conversation fun and flirty for you both, you won't have AA anymore
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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheep View Post
    The quickest way to get over AA is A........for Alcohol. I'm serious. However, I don't advice this to non-drinkers who are not used to alcohol and may end up acting like idiots, but a couple of shots to relax after what could have been a long stressful day at work, will quickly let you forget about your worries and get you in the mood to chat to people.....just watch what you drink

    Another thing, I need you to honestly answer this question, what is giving me AA?! is it
    (A) Fear of Rejection (meaning that she will downright call you a loser and tell you no) or
    (B) Fear of Conversation Failure(of knowing what to say after the initial opener, running out of steam and not knowing how to make her attracted to you)

    I find that most people are actually afraid of B, which means that once you learn the dynamics of making conversation fun and flirty for you both, you won't have AA anymore

    This is exactly what I was thinking earlier on today. Most of the time I do get AA cause of B, Alcohol does help a lot as then I basically turn into almost an alpha and can talk to anyone. Obviously being drunk 24/7 isnt an option so just gotta learn to transition the vibe into sober version of me and talk to people, any people, that will also help getting rid of the AA, it doesn't always have to be a HB

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    So in essence just go out and conversate with anyone? In do time AA will become more tolerable and the "fear of conversation failure" will become something of the pass because it's like a sport *practice makes perfect*?

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    AA may always be there on some level you need to bail through it.no need to employ alcohol.start talking to people when you get the chance be more social.
    before you walk up and talk to a woman talk to a few girls if you may(warm up).the thing is you should get used to talking to girls and interacting with them in general.

    Sometimes when you meet girls there may be this awkwardness you may feel (its primal) just stick in there run game you'll be fine.After a few thread you'll be fine

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    Try this...


    Go to a bar. Any bar. Doesn't matter.

    Approach EVERYONE as if you were the manager/owner of the club. (nobody will know the difference) All you have to do is walk up to random groups, say "You guys having a good time?" NODD YOUR HEAD as you do this. It is a positive action and will cause a positive reaction. Monkey see, monkey do.

    This will help you realize that as long as your emotions are POSITIVE, people will usually be receptive of you.

    Don't worry about going into routines or even holding the interest of the group after that... Just keep approaching and approaching.

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    Its been proven that it takes a human 21-30 times of repeating something for it to become a habit. The point is at first it will be hard and you have to come to the realisation that you will get rejected from time to time, it just happens. As you open more and more sets say more than 30 times, it will become a habit and just feel much more easy and comfortable to do.

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    Default Re: Need to get over AA fast!!!

    well i got over my AA when i invested in my self tried to get my sh1t up and dress well look well and act as the guy who lives up to life at the fullest then i manage to conquer and lessen AA on me try talking and talking to different people strike a conversation until having a conversation with other people became a normal thing and thats when u reduce ur AA and can approach anyone dont mind it if you get rejected move on to another do a club game talk to 1 girl for 5 sec thn move to another highfive the girls you see that are enjoying just dont look like a creep look as smooth not to smooth just naturally smooth
    stopping poverty 1 girl at time..


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