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    Young Country Bumpkin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What do I do with this girl?

    Okay, so I'm not really bad with women, I'm just terrible at reading signs that aren't obvious. *Like, if I don't catch her staring or she doesn't smile at me, or isn't constantly touching me or doesn't laugh at every weak joke I made or other obvious signs, I'm lost for the most part.

    So let me tell y'all a little about me real quick.

    A few years ago, I wouldn't say I was a player, but I had the potential to be. *I could get girls effortlessly, have girls flirting with me in packs.

    Then, a while later, I fell into a deep depression, all I did was sleep all day, I stopped going out with my friends, I felt like nobody wanted anything to do with me (which was untrue, as people actually enjoy my company). *Even when women chased me, I would be so focused on the bad parts of my life, I didn't take advantage of the few good things that were happening.

    Anyway, around 2011, I decided to stop being a bitch, whining about all of my problems, and be the person I used to be.

    It took about half a year to get back to the way I was, but something wasn't right, I wasn't as good with women as I used to be. *I slowly turned back into the old me, fast forward to now, don't mean to brag but, I'm more of a better me.

    Anyway, its 2012 and I have my confidence back. *I'm currently talking to four girls, one of the four confuses the HELL out of me.

    I'm gonna skip all of the shit about how we met and everything and just tell y'all what's going on.

    The shit she does has me saying "wtf" constantly. *Here's why: i'm pretty sure she's at least into me a little bit, but sometimes she'll just straight flirt with me, sometimes I can catch her looking at me and when she realizes I noticed, she either makes eye contact and smiles, looks down and smiles, looks away quickly, or looks like she's about to have a super-small orgasm or something.

    Sometimes, she'll initiate a conversation with me, sometimes, I'll have to start it and she'll put in as much work as I do, sometimes she'll just be fucking cold and respond with one word.

    She's comfortable with me touching her.

    Sometimes she could be really cool and sometimes she'll purposely be rude (even though I know she's playing around)

    She always smiles at everything I say (unless its one of her little "no response" days)

    She laughs at all of my jokes, doesn't matter how hilarious or how bad it is.

    I even got her address out of her and she eventually got mine.

    So, like I said, I'm pretty sure she feels something for me, but she makes it weird with the little days she has, especially when she's been having them more frequently.

    When I'm not around her, I don't want to give up, but I want to stop trying with her because I'm not with the attitude she has sometimes, but when I'm with her, I just feel the need to fuck the life out of her.

    I don't know what to do with her.

    And I forgot, she has a boyfriend. *She never mentioned him to me but when her friend mentioned him, she didn't deny it either. *I know she has problems with him and they don't have a good relationship (like I give a fuck, I don't know that man), but should I keep trying or just quit or what?

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    kand1990 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: What do I do with this girl?

    I think the big problem is the boyfriend. I am in a similar situation with a girl at work. older girl (shes 29 im 22) she has a boyfriend. they have their own issues and they are probably breaking up which is good news for me. anyway ive noticed that days they are in arguements and arent speaking she is very flirty very touchy and very sexual, but on days they are okay and getting along she wont respond to a lot of what I am saying. IOIs basically disapear. I dont really have much advice on how to deal with it. you dont want to date a cheater, i know i dont. i keep reminding the girl that I will never do anything with her if she has a boyfriend, which she respects and keeps her interested. she is probably not responding because she feels a bit guilty


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