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    smitty192 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help on continuing with a girl

    Had a girl I hadn't talked to in a while, never really talked to her much before honestly, that text me the other day. She's 29, two kids, and I'm 21 in college. Well she text me wanting to hang out, so I told her we could grab a bite to eat, having barely a clue what her real intentions were. Got something to eat, came back to my place and closed. She stayed the night, said she had an amazing time and wanted to get together again soon. I figured this was going to be an easy FWB thing, even though I know this girl is older and is looking to settle down. Well through some small talk she was joking about me being young, and I said something about me being 21, dont remember what. Next thing she says is "are you seriously 21? I thought you were atleast 25." But before this was stuff like "omg youre so sexy and look good naked" so i know she was looking for a lay. After the age forthcoming, she says how shes so much older and looking to settle down, but still had a really good time and "wants to stay friends" which is all we were.
    Question is, what can I do in this situation to keep in contact with her and ensure that I stay closing with her, or is this one of those things you just give up and say fark it and not bother with? Last thing I want is to linger around and make things awkward

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    Default Re: Need help on continuing with a girl

    Hey man,

    If you want to continue with this girl, there's a few things.

    She very easily could have wanted the lay, because it seems to have moved very quickly from the start. But it sounds like she filled the "leadership" role first -- AKA she's the one with the control and the power in whatever you guys have.

    She's right when she says she's looking for someone to settle down, but things like age are always able to be subverted if you know how to display yourself. If she's looking to settle down, that means that her biological self is looking for the alpha male, or someone who's capable of taking care of her and her kids (regardless of what her professional life is -- fact is all women want this subconsciously).

    They key is (if you're looking for this go to further than just hooking up) start displaying initiative and leadership between her -- and it can be VERY hard because of the age difference. But if you can display that, you'll lower her defenses and her biological brain will bypass her logical one. She'll start thinking "maybe he can be what I'm looking for."

    But that means you taking charge -- planning dates, taking her out. I recommend reading about alpha male if this is what you're looking for.

    Hope this helps!
    -CM

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    Default Re: Need help on continuing with a girl

    women say one thing (desire), but u ignore it and play ur game. she either buys into it or leaves.

    u want her to stay, but u kno it is beyond control what she does. rather let the - expectation of wanting her to stay - go... contact her like u normally do... believe in urself. u r the man for getting her then - u r the man to ger her again.

    if she wants to DQ u, u DQ her... remind her ur values - where ur headed in life - and that she is welcome to come along -- or miss out on a real good deal.

    GL


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