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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Very good advice. I use the same techniques but I will throw in a bit of teasing. After the initial kiss which I break contact first as it was said, I will lean in for another but instead of kissing I will brush my lips against hers and lightly bite the side of her lip. I will line back up as if I am going to kiss her normally but keep my lips very slightly away from hers and make her come after it. I will pull back no more than an inch but I make sure my lips stay as close to hers as possible. She will chase you and it will drive her nuts. If she has an aggressive side you will more often than not find her pushing you down or up against something and becoming very aggressive in the next steps.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    This is a good start but I'm gonna be honest, it seems very basic and with just these few moves the girl will often get bored of it. There's so much more you can add...

    About k close routines...they're garbage. The real kisses that lead to something happen without routines or asking or anything. They happen from kino escalation. Starts with touching shoulders/high fives, then holding hands, then touching face. If she's comfortable with you touching her face, she'll let you kiss her. I've never been rejected in kissing a girl, ever. What I have been rejected on (very rarely) is holding hands/touching her face. If they pull away their hand/face, they don't want to be kissed.

    Onto the actual kissing: What you wrote is very limited. And who said girls don't like biting? Every girl I've ever kissed got really turned on by me biting them. Start with slow kisses with your mouthes closed. Sucking on their bottom lip like you said and brushing their lip with your tongue is how I transition into making out as well.

    Once making out I get very aggressive (playfully). By this I mean bit her bottom lip (often accompanied with a hair pull at the same time), kiss her neck the bite her neck, follow the jawline to her ear and breath hot air into it, suck on her earlobe, bite her earlobe, choke her to where it may be slightly hard to breathe, make out some more, grab her body, rub her thighs while making out, brush over her lovely parts, rub her lovely parts, etc... [NOT NECESSARILY IN THIS ORDER]. I've been told by girls that I'm the best kisser they've ever had. Believe me, it all works (especially the choking, girls farking love the sense of danger it adds).
    Last edited by KristiBell; 08-21-2013 at 07:47 AM. Reason: explicit

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Quote Originally Posted by OG_PlMP View Post
    Onto the actual kissing: What you wrote is very limited. And who said girls don't like biting? Every girl I've ever kissed got really turned on by me biting them. Start with slow kisses with your mouthes closed. Sucking on their bottom lip like you said and brushing their lip with your tongue is how I transition into making out as well.
    What I've written is an introduction and general principles. Only some girls are going to be into the biting; some really hate it. You have to establish a comfort with the kiss before you start getting into that area.

    It's better to err on the side of caution to start with I wouldn't advise biting or choking for a first kiss haha.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    One thing that I do and I tell my clients to do is to tease her a little bit. Once you deliver a SOLID kiss (pretty much exactly like sidewinder said) go in for the kiss while looking in her eyes. Oh one other point. I usually have one hand on the hips (for gods sake don't start the first kiss with your hands on any of her personal parts, it's too aggressive and she will get turned off), while the other hand is caressing her head. This gives you great opportunity to do things like brush her hair behind her ear, and lightly rub her cheeks (They LOVE that).

    So after a stellar kiss you look at her with your hand caressing her head and go in for a kiss, and when you get within an inch pull back, and then just say "just kidding." This will drive her CRAZY and the next kiss will be one that she feels like she had to work for.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    Its also very Alpha to grab her hands and put them where you want them (not on your JUNK!) but I often place a girls hand on my ass. It gets a smile (and a squeeze) and often enables you to get more hands on as well.
    This is a new one to me and a great idea! I'll be sure to try it out the next time I kiss someone

    I think it's worthwhile to mention that along with your hand on her hip, there should be a firm hold (not squeezing, but more then just placing) as well as a gentle pressure towards you.

    Also starting with little kisses from the collar bone to just behind the jaw, under the ear is a real pleaser. I've used that as part of the escalation to the kiss with some pretty good results, as well as an end to the making out. There was one time I did it and didn't go in for the kiss, leaving her wanting more. That led to quite an amazing weekend

    I feel I should quanlify myself being relatively new to this. I'm new to PUA but with my natural game I did ok. It was hard for me to get to kissing with it, but if I could get to the kiss I could get to the f-close with just one fail. Everything else I need improvement. Just want to contribute

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    I'll throw in my two cents:

    You can gently "bite" her upper lip with your lips, not you teeth, as you end the kiss, and it is not a bad idea to angle your head as you kiss.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Quote Originally Posted by Fire Eater View Post
    I'll throw in my two cents:

    You can gently "bite" her upper lip with your lips, not you teeth, as you end the kiss, and it is not a bad idea to angle your head as you kiss.
    Exactly. In my experience women get freaked out by things that can be perceived as physically aggressive too soon.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    I would add a small tip that is helpful for guys like me with thin lips: Pout your bottom lip a little bit during the initial part of the kiss (non-French part). It makes the lip softer and fuller, and it helps keep your scratchy beard somewhat away from her lips.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Get a cheap tongue scraper. Really will help.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    I have the same issue. Feel like I'm doing the same thing, the same moves. Thank you, Sidewinder. Will try the Alpha move. Also, I've noticed that more and more women like to kiss in public. When I was a kid, it seemed avoiding PDA's was more the rule. Glad that's loosened up a bit.
    "Cause people are funny and they donít know what they want when they have it
    Itís only things they donít know that they can believe in"





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