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Thread: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

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    Default Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    There are tonnes of guides about k-closing, and I don't want to repeat so I thought I'd cover technique.

    I have been told I am an amazing kisser, one of my best girl mates actually asked me to kiss her because she "simply wanted to know what the fuss was about"... I ended up sleeping with her ha!

    so a few tips

    1) always carry chewing gum! especially if you smoke! bad breath will ruin any kiss... and for the love of god spit it out before you kiss her ( I shouldn't have to point this out)

    2) don't ram your tongue down her throat! to start with kiss her lips gently and suck the bottom lip a little, trust me on this! then when you've warmed her up when you kiss again gently lick her bottom lip when you kiss. If she likes a frenchie she will open her mouth, if she doesn't, close yours!

    3) hands: your hands are very powerful weapons in your arsenal. I like to place one on her hip (not her arse- we'll get to that) then place one hand on the side of her face, cupping her cheek so your thumb and fingers are forming a v round her ear. Then you stroke her face and neck and pull her in (GENTLY) as you kiss)

    Its also very Alpha to grab her hands and put them where you want them (not on your JUNK!) but I often place a girls hand on my ass. It gets a smile (and a squeeze) and often enables you to get more hands on as well.

    4) taking it further: FOR YOUR SECOND KISS AND NOT IN PUBLIC! If this has gone right by now she should be putty in your hands. Now you can throw in a few different moves. Pull away slightly then start to kiss her jaw-line towards her ear. Once you get her lick round the back of her ear and make sure you breathe heavily into her ear. This drives women mental and it my bridge to sex! Just whisper in her ear, lets get out of here. Then find the damn condom

    5) Relax and enjoy it: women can tell if you are nervous about it and it will ruin the whole thing.

    6) Timing: so how long should this last? and is the first date too soon? this depends on a number of things, what's the level of attraction? Is she shy or out going and is the kiss in public? There are no hard and fast rules here just best and worst case

    Generally you don't want a first kiss to last more than 20 seconds as a loose guideline. But If you're good and you're in private there is no reason you can't keep it going for as long as you want. I made out with a girl in her car last night for 30 minutes! The golden rule is always be the first to break contact.

    Oh and I forgot to mention! The more you do it the better you will get.

    Pucker Up! ; )

    Sidewinder

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Really good guide, I get told I'm a good kisser and I do the same sorta stuff, I like to bite on her ear a little as well tho, sends them crazy but I'm impressed also being a good kisser gives you such an edge, the amount of women that I know that tell me it's nice to find a guy who can kiss is untold.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    It really does! the ears and neck are killer areas to go for if you know what you're doing. But nobody likes a biter!

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Don't bite too much, just like a bit of a nibble if ya get me

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Quote Originally Posted by sidewinder89 View Post
    There are tonnes of guides about k-closing, and I don't want to repeat so I thought I'd cover technique.

    I have been told I am an amazing kisser, one of my best girl mates actually asked me to kiss her because she "simply wanted to know what the fuss was about"... I ended up sleeping with her ha!

    so a few tips

    1) always carry chewing gum! especially if you smoke! bad breath will ruin any kiss... and for the love of god spit it out before you kiss her ( I shouldn't have to point this out)

    2) don't ram your tongue down her throat! to start with kiss her lips gently and suck the bottom lip a little, trust me on this! then when you've warmed her up when you kiss again gently lick her bottom lip when you kiss. If she likes a frenchie she will open her mouth, if she doesn't, close yours!

    3) hands: your hands are very powerful weapons in your arsenal. I like to place one on her hip (not her arse- we'll get to that) then place one hand on the side of her face, cupping her cheek so your thumb and fingers are forming a v round her ear. Then you stroke her face and neck and pull her in (GENTLY) as you kiss)

    Its also very Alpha to grab her hands and put them where you want them (not on your JUNK!) but I often place a girls hand on my ass. It gets a smile (and a squeeze) and often enables you to get more hands on as well.

    4) taking it further: FOR YOUR SECOND KISS AND NOT IN PUBLIC! If this has gone right by now she should be putty in your hands. Now you can throw in a few different moves. Pull away slightly then start to kiss her jaw-line towards her ear. Once you get her lick round the back of her ear and make sure you breathe heavily into her ear. This drives women mental and it my bridge to sex! Just whisper in her ear, lets get out of here. Then find the damn condom

    5) Relax and enjoy it: women can tell if you are nervous about it and it will ruin the whole thing.

    6) Timing: so how long should this last? and is the first date too soon? this depends on a number of things, what's the level of attraction? Is she shy or out going and is the kiss in public? There are no hard and fast rules here just best and worst case

    Generally you don't want a first kiss to last more than 20 seconds as a loose guideline. But If you're good and you're in private there is no reason you can't keep it going for as long as you want. I made out with a girl in her car last night for 30 minutes! The golden rule is always be the first to break contact.

    Oh and I forgot to mention! The more you do it the better you will get.

    Pucker Up! ; )

    Sidewinder
    Awesome contribution my friend!

    One thing though... I recommend breath mints over gum.
    Reason being: that chomping / chewing action can be a distraction & turn-off.

    Otherwise, I agree whole-heartedly!
    (And your follow-up reply about the ears & neck are spot on!)



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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    ATTN: Bill / Virgil...
    This thread would be a good "sticky"


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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    I'm still a noob here but I'll chime in quickly: Good kissers are the ones who concentrate on the kiss. When you mind starts to go elsewhere, you loose focus on the action and the quality of your kiss suffers from it.

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    Awesome contribution my friend!

    One thing though... I recommend breath mints over gum.
    Reason being: that chomping / chewing action can be a distraction & turn-off.

    Otherwise, I agree whole-heartedly!
    (And your follow-up reply about the ears & neck are spot on!)

    Thanks! Yeah I think you're right about the breath mints! Thing is I smoke so I find gum to be better as it takes any residue off the old teeth!

    The lesson is don't smoke is a filthy and disgusting (but tragically fun) habbit

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    Quote Originally Posted by T-Mal View Post
    ATTN: Bill / Virgil...
    This thread would be a good "sticky"
    Done!

    Thanks for the suggestion!

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    Default Re: Guide to Kissing Technique - Sidewinder

    Awesome post!! I've been told that I am good too. I love kiss the neck as well. Get lost in the moment. But I've learned some things here! Good job!!


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