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    johnnyboy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how do you pick up a barmaid?

    Help, there's this lovely young lady, but I only ever see her when she's working behind the bar of a pub I frequent once every couple of week, this pub is always fairly busy,as its near a "sporting arena". There's definitely a mutual attraction, but its hard to get enough time with her to ask her out or have a proper conversation with her. Any advice would be more than welcome!

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    Sean2011 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: how do you pick up a barmaid?

    Help, there's this lovely young lady, but I only ever see her when she's working behind the bar of a pub I frequent once every couple of week, this pub is always fairly busy,as its near a "sporting arena". There's definitely a mutual attraction, but its hard to get enough time with her to ask her out or have a proper conversation with her. Any advice would be more than welcome!
    Go early.

    Most bartenders I've picked up were most open to talking to me early in the night. Go early, talk to her, make yourself stand out from everyone else. Doesnt hurt to tip a little more too, if you can afford it.
    "I cheated on my fears, broke u with my doubt and now, I'm marrying my dreams!"

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    ronthepen is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: how do you pick up a barmaid?

    There's a hot barmaid working in the Pub I go to the most. About 8 months ago I got single and used humor to tell her I was single and to ask her if she was as well. She said she also was, so I told her I would start to seduce her.

    Like Sean said I started to tip her way more and always make her laugh when she came to my table. I don't have any real intentions with this girl.

    Anyway, after a few weeks I started to notice she was giving me IOIs, she would touch me, kiss me on the cheeks when she sees me and stuff. One day I felt like she was distant so I isolated her and asked her if she was OK - and she opened up and told me about her personal problems.

    For months I just kept thinking she was a hired gun and that there were so many hot guys hitting on her that I actually had no chance with her.

    In the last week I managed to get closer to my #1 target, which is another girl, and I was over confident. So last saturday I just went direct with her and told her she and I should date, expecting her to turn me down. I really didn't give a fark.

    To my surprise, she told me she was actually getting back with her ex.. but that she wasn't so sure about it being the right thing to do... and that my suggestion about a date was tempting.

    Basically I told her I was also close to having a GF so the best thing would be to do our things and if we both crash & burn we should talk about us again in a few months.

    So my advice is to:`
    1) Be funny
    2) Be different, try to know her, create a connection
    3) Be direct about your intentions
    4) Show you have other girls interested in you
    5) Take your time. Months in my case.
    6) Don't give a fark
    7) Be direct again but never in front of other customers or bar staff
    9) Have fun
    10) Good luck


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