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    Default have first date tomorrow need advice

    I'm terrible at first dates because I'm usually really nervous and have an akward demeanor. I met this girl off an online dating site and she's really pretty and I want to know if there's some videos I should watch or something I should read because I feel like i'm not prepared. My last first date the girl told me I'm not her type and asked me to leave after 3 minutes or so.

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    Default Re: have first date tomorrow need advice

    lol - BJ...

    u'll b fine

    quick fix is to repeat
    1. u r the shit
    2. she is lucky for dating u
    3. she is just another boring date

    even when u see her - repeat 1-3

    take her somewhere upbeat and not loud

    when u speak - look at her and talk abt something abt her
    if u talk abt urself - speak generally abt wht u like b/c it makes u feel...

    omg....... this is too much to write.

    look - search direct game/day game
    learn "rollercoaster kokology"
    if u BS well, then learn "rainforest"

    tell us how it goes...

    buy "the game" to get acquainted with this world.^^

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    bljohnson11 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: have first date tomorrow need advice

    I read the game many years ago and I've read a good bit of pua stuff and self help but didn't think it was for me and thought I should just be myself and it doesn't work. I was planning on taking her to get ice cream or coffee then to a movie buying her ticket and holding her hand during if I had the courage. She's 18 and seems kinda dumb maybe easy I met her off online dating site too.

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    Default Re: have first date tomorrow need advice

    "the game" just gives u an idea of which path to choose.

    there are tons of stuff on PU - u need to just ask the right questions.

    i would not go movie... u wanna look at ur target and interact... if u do a movie, u would've wasted the few hours she's giving u to make something. also means less time for u to practice PU.

    remember, ur only going to be as good as u put in..... or that ur just a natural and his forum would help u little


    i'm interested to hear what happens on ur date if u can write abt it

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    Default Re: have first date tomorrow need advice

    thanks for the advice I'll write about it just not sure what else to do besides movie there's not much else to do in the small town I live in and I thought the holding hands for a while would make it easy to kiss her after but haven't even thought of what i would do after either and it is first date so i'm thinking maybe i shouldn't even kiss her.

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    Default Re: have first date tomorrow need advice

    You are thinking too much and that is the problem. When hanging out with your guy friends do you think whether or not you are going to make a fart joke or not? You just do it right? Being on the date is no different. Well minus the fart jokes, dates is all about fun and meeting someone new. Stop viewing it as just a date but more of meeting a new friend. If the date doesnt work out at least you should be able to hang with the person.
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    Default Re: have first date tomorrow need advice

    roller-skate - ice skate - billiards - corn maze - roller derby - live games
    putt putt - pet store - gym - swim

    i avoid
    bowling
    movies


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