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    Default This one's a real catch

    Ok so just to start off, I would date this girl. Haven't felt this way about someone for a while...

    So we met once my last night in town a year ago (haven't been back since) and it was a very drunken night, ended with a bunch of us playing instruments in this girl's basement. Had a good time with each other but nothing else. Also noticed she is super affectionate towards everyone guys and girls so take everything from here on with that in mind.

    Aight so soon after that night she adds me on facebook and likes one of my rock climbing photos, which I think she does as well. I reciprocate and pick out this banging photo of her and like it, oh also I'll mention here she is like a solid 8 and definitely too hot for me.

    No other contact for a year but I just got back into town a few days ago. She shows up to this bar to celebrate a mutual friend's 21st and we eventually bump into each other. I'm talking to another girl but she makes her way towards us to say hi. I go "hey stacy right?" she responds "ya remind me your name". I tell her and say something about the night we met. We then talk for a little while with the girl I had originally been talking to, conversation had been kinda serious about some family problems the first girl had been having. "stacy" eventually leaves to go get a drink and I don't see her for a while. Thought I maybe caught her and another girl I also met the same night giggling and sort of pointing at me but not sure.

    Later I head out to leave and walk out a door to find a bunch of people smoking cigs. Notice she's out there but don't notice anyone else I know right away so just decide I'm gonna head to my car without saying anything. She yells out to me "hey cody are you leaving?" I turn around and say ya, and another girl (unattractive friend of mine) yells "cody give me a hug goodbye". She walks over to me to hug me and stacy follows. Goes in for the hug after the first girl with this big beautiful smile on the whole time, all I'm thinking is damn this girl is hot. I ask her how long she's in town for and she says like a month. I say the about the same and that we should hang out. She smiles and says ya definitely and throws in a little arm touch. I say something like ok see you around and head out...

    SO, how should I proceed??? I wanna hit her up on facebook and make some plans. But this is the point where I often screw it up with the real catches like this one. I wanna play it safe, so I'm posting on here hoping to get some advice. My take is, she is either realllly nice to everyone like it seems, or she has asked around about me and heard something she likes.

    Spark notes: want to pursue really hot/cool girl, we've seen each other twice, she seemed to be throwing out some signals but she is really affectionate towards everyone, but not in a tease way. Seems really down to earth... what should I do?
    Last edited by mrtorrence; 12-21-2012 at 03:04 AM. Reason: clarity

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    Default Re: This one's a real catch

    Come on nobody has any advice on this one?? I really want to make something happen with this girl.

    Some more background on her if that helps... she just got back from a 6 month trip to Australia, she's really free spirited, just a really nice girl ya know?

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    Default Re: This one's a real catch

    Can the real experts please stand up, please stand up...

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    Default Re: This one's a real catch

    If you play it safe know you've already lost it..Since the woman is already interested in you just focus on not screwing up, little light teasing and lots of mystery and making her jealus. .a month ago i lost a girl cuz i played it safe since she was heavily attracted to me..it all fizzles away when u forget the basics...if you want to keep her act very fast, once you've entered her then she's yours but not by taking it slow...it took me alot of disappointments to realise that...and dont be afraid of loosing her..u wont always get what u want...right now as we speak i just got a text from a girl that i had planned a date today with telling me that she cant make it and the make out we had in the previous party was just that and it wont ever happen again...its a numbers game so im spinning to the next plate...

    hope this helps

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    Default Re: This one's a real catch

    Alright so I'm no expert but I think you should of at least number closed this girl. She showed clear interest when she asked you if you were leaving. When she asked you to remind her of your name, she knew exactly who you were, she was just trying to act cool. You should send her a message on FB and set up a meet. Keep it light and fun. Maybe some coffee or a fun activity

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    Default Re: This one's a real catch

    You are on very slippery ground my friend. VERY slippery. This can go either way.

    You made some small but crucial mistakes which could have set u back. But it seems like u dont live close to her so that fact may save you.

    I think your mindset is all wrong. You are talking about this girl like you had five dates with her. Stop hyping her up when you barely know her. Be of the mindset that you are kind of interested but she has to convince you. If you focus on the 'she too hot for me' stuff you are going to screw up. You are the prize... you are as great if not greater than she is.

    Follow supremos advice. And in the future, dont give up your power so quickly. For ex... you told her you knew her name right off the bat. That shows interest. She then could pretend she didnt remember you (or she actually forgot). Already she has the advantage in her mind. You followed HER lead by giving up your name asap. You should have teased her about it. Teasing her tells her that she will have to work to get u. Your not one of those guys who seeks validation from a girl.
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