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    SpitfireBridge is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Is this approach anxiety or something else

    ok when i approach anyone who doesnt register on my hot scale i can be alpha have a laugh joke and tease them but when they are off the scale hot i become a gibbering idiot and go completely beta and way to needy is this an inner game issue or aa

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    Default Re: Is this approach anxiety or something else

    I no longer have this problem AND I have no idea how I solved it for myself, so I cannot really help with a solution. I can only say to try your best to see all women as human beings and do not let physical appearance discourage you. This is extremely ironic, but the ONLY time I have trouble with women is if they are a lot older than me (elderly) or much younger than me (kids) but NOT when it comes to physical appearance! I know it's strange, but I can only game women that seem to be at least 18 and at most 40 to maybe 45. I feel weird with anything outside of that (and I don't know why).

    It's extremely difficult for me to tell you how or recommend how to get over your natural reaction to another person's physical experience. Me saying "just remember that they are human and treat them like human beings" will not help, but that's all I can offer. Hopefully someone else here can psychologically break down a solution in such a way that it helps you change your perspective about how intimidating hot girls are.

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    Default Re: Is this approach anxiety or something else

    When you go out to game, practice on girls you don't find attractice. Use them as your warm up. Do 4-5 approaches you don't care about, then go for the ones you're interested in.
    Never need praise, sympathy, or approval




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