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    Unhappy I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a jerk!

    I met a hot blonde last nite at a bar. I manage to get her number at the end of the night but now I've forgot her name. Normally I would just move on, but she was pretty hot n seemed like a cool girl. How do I try n find her name out without looking like a d1ck!

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    Loool be like "So name one of your favorite celebrities sharing your name" in the middle of convo

    Or if you text her and she doesn't have your number be like

    " you forgot my name?!?! Oh WOW! Now I guess we have to introduce ourselves to one another again"
    Her Reply, probably "lol who is this"
    "Im... and you are?"
    Her Reply. "ohh from the bar (if she remembers you)"

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    I do this a lot since I make so many approaches. I simply just ask for their name again, OR since my name is hard to pronounce, I say "I bet you don't even remember my name, do you?" or "Please forgive me for this, but... could you tell me your name again? Although I know you forgot mine, too."

    Sometimes this may not work if they do actually remember your name and they say "yes, it's ......." but the key is to not be scared to ask a woman for her name again. Most of the time (at least in my experiences) they understand. Just be fun, charismatic, and playful and they will not mind giving you their name.

    Now, there was this time when I approached and introduced myself to the same girl 3 times in a row because I didn't remember her. I'd categorize her as at least an HB8. How did I forget? Because I never let looks intimidate or discourage me, so I approach anyone I desire. Therefore, the chances of forgetting a face don't change with degree of physical attractiveness.

    And why be afraid of being a d1ck? Isn't anything better than being a "nice guy?"

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    u forgot her name... that's ok.

    reapproach her
    roll into chick crack: straw berry fields
    towards the middle of the routine - whip cell out
    start recording her answers in notepad (cell)
    finish routine
    listen - i gtg...
    (KINO's #.close)
    how do u spell ur name.?
    tease on spelling
    (Cody's #.close variation on KINO's)
    area code 555-
    look at her and wait for to finish giving u her number
    --if she hesitates--
    what.? u don't know ur own number.?!
    exit


    that smooth or what.? ^^

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    Being from Las Vegas this happens all the time, I usually just say to them, I was wasted last nite the only thing I remember is chatting with this beautiful girl who gave me her number and giving my last drink to some bum lol. In most cases they've forgot ur name to, but you just made them feel good and laugh in 1 stroke. Your in!

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    Pretend you are interested in her middle and last name.

    Part way through conversation, casually say "So, what's your FULL name?" (Hinting at...you know her first name but you want her middle and last.) I'd say something like I have 3 of you in my phone...I need to be able to tell them apart.
    -Then she will respond telling you the entire thing, including her first which you already "knew."

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    Actually I found that forgetting their name helps with some girls. Especially ones who think they are so beautiful that I should have their name seared into my brain the moment I start speaking with them. If I forgot their name, it means I think they are forgettable. Depending on the girl, it can be fun to have a game with them about it. Recently I got into this situation who I kind of forgot her name (knew it was something with a J sound) so I just started calling her another name (it was Yoselyn, I was calling her Jessica) then surprisingly she remembered my name and started calling me something similar to it!

    Another example I had of this (I'm terrible with names as you can probably tell) at work a student who came to work with us (HB9+ and she knew it) I met the day before came back the next day. I had been introduced to her and remembered her name, but I pretended that I had totally forgotten I'd even met her the day before, and had no idea of her name. Pure gold! Ended up giving her a nickname (another great route) which worked even better. Even used her nickname (which she hated) in my phone when I got her number (showed her too) which worked well too! Nicknames are great for getting around the "forgot your name" thing. Usually they love/hate that, and will be more than happy to remind you of what their real name is (which you should certainly never use if you already have a great nickname for them).

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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a d1ck!

    Yeah I say re-open as if you don't remember her. If she calls you on it play it off cool as if her reminding you of the meeting is an IOI/sh1t test to see if you will sweat it. Play it off like no big deal and share a laugh about it. I'd do it like Ted Mosby from HIMYM but that's just me
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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    If you want to be clever about it just give her a nickname for now. Then when you are together, accuse her of lying about her age then check her ID. BOOM!! Done.
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    Default Re: I forgot her name? How do I ask her without looking like a dick!

    I personally do this a lot too. In my RL job I also need to memorize names quickly so I am used to asking it alot. Just be cool/playfull about it.


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