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Thread: Why Inner game should be your starting point!

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    Default Why Inner game should be your starting point!

    I read a lot of threads on here where people are unsure what to say or what to do in certain circumstances.

    The biggest lesson I have learnt to date is that you can read as many guides, and learn as many lines as you want, until you confront your inner game you will not be successful because no matter what you say or do everything about you will scream "I lack self confidence" from an awkward shuffle and inability to hold eye contact to responding to her text too quickly...

    If you spend time working on your inner game your outer game will naturally improve, a lot of the sticking points will disappear and generally I find that I can recover from most mistakes when my self-confidence is sky-high.

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    Default Re: Why Inner game should be your starting point!

    When my confidence is high i can pull 80% of girls easy with out any lines or routines, but when I'm unsure, or not having a good time, it doesn't matter what I say or do, I will not get any type of close. I honestly believe all you really need to have to pick up girls is confidence. The ability to have that constant confidence and ability to go into any set without hesitation is what separates great PUA's from myself

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    Default Re: Why Inner game should be your starting point!

    it is true, u must have a strong core say some stuff, but if ur approaching - ur already winning.

    there are lots of guides to get over ur AA.

    i personally like Andy Yosha's transition model. u can youtube it.

    also, i'm just agreeing with u that - u can read guides all i want, it won't make u great. Style says that if u r reading more than u r applying, then u r not really improving. (whi h is my case now b/c i have a GF). well, doesn't stop my from helping the community, right.?

    GL

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    Default Re: Why Inner game should be your starting point!

    Inner game junkie here.

    "If you spend time working on your inner game your outer game will naturally improve, a lot of the sticking points will disappear and generally I find that I can recover from most mistakes when my self-confidence is sky-high."

    It's all about finding your anchor, what keeps you grounded in this hectic and confusing world of ours. What is it that puts you into that pumped-up no-holds-barred sarging mood? What is it that brings you back to a calm grounded state when you're stressed and feeling lost in the world? Find your anchors, and you will go far.
    My Calming(Stress Relieving) Anchor: Meditation, Weight-lifting
    My Pump-Up Anchor: I've trained myself to get pumped up and into that manic nothing-can-stop-me state by simply grinning like a fool. A little classic Pavlovian conditioning where every time I brought a girl back to my place, I made sure to wildly grin right before having sex with her. I've associated the feeling of having sex with grinning and so completely internalized it that when I simply grin to myself, all of those amazing feelings come back.

    Learn to love yourself before you can love others You must become completely confident in your own abilities to make a change in the world and to make things happen not only for yourself, but for others around you. I'm actually abstaining from any sexual contact(no cumming at all) for 40 days+40 nights during this winter vacation, heavily concentrating on meditation + weightlifting. Brb, becoming a hermit. None of us will ever be perfect with women, but that does NOT mean that we are not going to try. Even the best of PUA's still get feelings of AA when approaching the most beautiful of women, even if it's just a little tingle, we're still human, and it's how you directly deal with problems like AA that determine how successful you will be.

    Buddhist Inner Game Junkie, out~
    Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.

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