Met a really cool and stunning girl last weekend so let me tell you the story.
Was with a couple of friends at a 2day music festival in my hometown.
Noticed a cute girl together with 2 friends a one of the venues and my wingman did the approach asking if they had the timetable for the weekend for him to check. (simple but perfect way to open a set at a concert or festival)
I walked by and started to check out their timetable together with my friend and threw in some advice about the bands worth checking out, etc. Got some IOI 's from the hot girl because she was really interested in my opinion and told her friends she wanted to check out the band i mentioned.
(always do your research if you're going to festivals or concerts, if you can recommend a good band, always a score! you can even ask for phone numbers if you've chatted for a short a bit to ask to go and check out the gig together)
'Live music is so cool, it brings people together it feels like we've been friends for ages'
+ you're dancing, you can make fun of how people dance or stare, make groupies jokes, etc.etc.
So next day I met her at the gig I had recommended and ended up staying together with her and my friends for the day. Got her phone number, etc. She added me on fb the day after etc.
Now as all went well I invited her for a concert (i had free tickets) which didn't work for her . The concert was not in our hometown so that might have been an issue for her having to go there by train or by car with me. I replied I had to go and do an interview at a local arts gallery 2 days later as I work for a city radio station as a volunteer and she could join me. Also vaguely mentioned a concert that same night.
So met her at the arts gallery. Perfect place to DHV if you know anything about arts or photograpy. Chicks absolutely love it if you have some stories about the painters, techniques, etc. All went well, did the interview with the owner of the gallery and she asked me herself about the concert that same night. Show was only on a bit later so went for a drink first and we had a good conversation.
Gig was surprisingly good and I think she did some research about the band at home. There was a dj playing afterwards, I asked her to go and dance. And she pulls this pretty hot moves for me and I start dance with her and teasing her a bit, give couple kisses in her neck. I walked her home and we kissed.
Now my problem, I 'm terrible once I have a crush on a girl so most stuff I've done after this was not as good as the date and our first meeting. When i came home i 've sent a txt telling her goodnight and that i enjoyed the evening. The next day a friend of mine told me I had to text her to ask her out again which wasnt my initial plan but I did anyway.
She replied she couldnt make it the next day. Some texts back and forth but she doesn't really show alot of interest or she's not asking me out again for now or trying to set another date if one day doesn't work out for her.
Guess I fell into the showing 'being needy' trap a bit now so really to get out of there
It 's just something I have to think about, it's just me falling in love like a schoolboy very quickly...
So what's up next guys?! Help me out!