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    Bravek is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Am I getting played?

    Ok me and this girl started talking the other day, she's pretty cool and there's a lot of IOIs comin from her. Last night we drove around for an hour until she suggested we head to where she was staying. We watched tv and she decided to use me as a pillow, I was planning to go for a good k close but while we were talking I brought up that I was moving here soon, right after I brought that up its like somebody flipped a switch. Next thing I know I got completely locked out and went from flirting and cuddling to complete silence so I left. Is there any way to salvage something out of this or did I mess up?

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    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Am I getting played?

    Too much comfort with no attraction building. Friendzone. Honestly the only way to fix it is keep flirting and CLOSE. Girls love to be kissed, so do it. She agreed to have you over what do you think she expected? She wanted you to be a man and go for it, not hear about your moving date.

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    Default Re: Am I getting played?

    Brave

    it is very strange what her actions were. but u need not bother with the why's and what she was thinking.

    as a PUA, ur job now is to run ur game.

    1) freeze her for a day/two
    2) contact her and talk to her as nothing happened
    --- search text game - U can apply text game to RL talk
    link: http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...text-game.html
    --- come in with high energy - interesting item
    --- do one chick crack
    3) keep it short and leave in a high note

    4) when she's more engaging - just straight ask her out using statement
    example:
    Sammy.! u - me - 631pm Irish Pub. Go.!

    if she refuses, then refreeze and contact forums on ur progress.


    does this help.?

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    pickuptranslator is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Am I getting played?

    I agree, just ignore her for a day or few days. Than you can try to repeat, but you should have not mentioned you were going to be moving there. That is too much info for her, she didnt need to know that. Only tell them what they need to know, any more and they will feel on a pedestal

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    Bravek is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Am I getting played?

    I'm already freezing her out, I'm with family for Christmas so good excuse. I'm just gonna wait until I get back then hang out with some friends and have her come over, freeze her out there too for just a bit then pull her off to the side and go for a k close.


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