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    Default Need help getting the right girls lack confidence

    I know this may sound strange but I don't seem to have a problem getting women,but I have a problem with getting the right women, example if I'm talking to two girls I always end up with the one I don't really fancy whilst her hot friend goe's off alone. I don't seem to be able to get the hottie, I get the chance but watch as the opportunity slips through my hands kicking myself later saying I should have said or done this , but seem to freeze at the time.It's happened twice in the last few days both times whilst shopping.On both occasions a gorgeous woman started talking to me sending all the right signals and I turn into a tongue tied moron.

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    Default Re: Need help getting the right girls lack confidence

    hmm, it can be a million things but anyways ..

    maybe you approach the lets call them HB9 & HB7..

    since you want the HB9, you might do some mistakes and show interest in her, and kind of ignore a bit HB7.. making HB7 wanting you more, and HB9 hard to get.

    - it could be the way you talk, or you bodylanguage (ie, who are you facing), etc etc
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Need help getting the right girls lack confidence

    I'm not exactly an expert, but it sounds like your core problem is that you're too outcome dependent. You won't get the kind of girls you want until you don't really care which girl you get. Sounds paradoxical, but if you keep gaming, you'll eventually not care if you succeed or fail with the hot girl. Sounds like you're just more comfortable being real with the less hot girl because it's less pressure. Until you've got ice-blood in your veins with the hot ones from lots of experience, you won't be able to reliably get them all the time. Just remember, no matter how hot she is, there are millions more like her.


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