Ok heres the story
Met this girl on facebook about 6 months ago, we went to the same HS but never knew each other, knew lots of the same people (I dont hang out with anyone from HS anymore). I am 29 by the way. I was bored and just looking for a friend, she had a bf at the time, shes like a 9 looks wise, im like a 5(severely overweigh, like 400lbs overweight). We talked once in a while on fb, i tried getting her number but got shut down, invited her places and was shut down with "i have a bf he wouldn't be a fan" to which i replied i just wanna be your friend, i dont want to date you (which i didn't as she's not my type) etc. One day we were talking and she offered me her phone number and told me to text her, which was right after she broke up with her bf.
I am the typical nice guy, virgin, friend with everyone type of person. I wasn't interested in dating her so I became her friend. We instantly gained each others trust and became best friends almost overnight. We would literally text each other every day from morning until night. She tells me everything about everything. Down to the point where she had to "confess" to me that she slept with this guy she was talking to. She tells me about all the guys who are interested in her, and all the guys who she is interested in. She is very flirty, calling me sweets, hun, etc. And after talking to her constantly for the past two months Now I am starting to fall for her. The problem is she is out of my league. She is very pretty, and she has told me she is a vain person. I am not that goodlooking and extremely overweight.
What do I do now? I am obviously in the friend zone, and confidence is not on my side. everyone i work with calls her my gf cuz we text so much and i was telling her that to which she replied that you text your friends. Once when we had plans to meet up she was going to cancel because she didnt have money and i said i would treat her and she replied "friends should always go dutch"....we ended up going out and i paid. its just so many mixed signals.