Hi my ex and I broke up a few months ago and I traveled out of toen to work, while she started going out with this other guy. Im home for xmas a few days ago and we hang out and both got really drunk and ended up going back to her place together. I told her I want to get back together with her and she told me she wants to also, becox tbis other guy is a jerk. Last nighg I asked her to have xmas eve dinner with me but she said she need to think aboug it first. My gut feeling is tellinv me shes trying to work things out with the other guy and wait a bit, cox shes uncertain and confuse now. I dont want go be the 2nd choice and wants this girl back really bad. Can someone givr me somr advice what I can do to get her to go out with me?