Okay I'm gonna write about some things I've been seeing a lot lately and need to get cleared up. The things are; The Friendzone, Negs and Shit Tests.
(Friendzone) Okay so The Friendzone I've been seeing a lot of posts with something titled like "Am I in the Friendzone". YES! If you're asking that question you already know the answer and you just don't want to admit it but the answer is yes. Let me explain it to you a little.
Why am I in the Friendzone?
she isn't attracted to you sexually she's attracted to your personality
- Lets face it you could be friends with a very nice girl and you get along great, but if you arn't sexually attracted to her its just not going to happen. Same thing goes for girls. It doesn't mean you're ugly so don't take it that way, she just isn't attracted to you because of the way you acted during initial meeting.
you put her up on a pedestal
- you see this girl and you think "Damn!... shes everything I've every wanted we get along perfect" but you can't figure out why she isn't into you. The problem here is that you're treating her like some sort of goddess when in reality shes just another girl out of the billions (yes there's billions). Everyone has heard the saying "People want what they can't have" if you treat her like a goddess she knows she can have you anytime, she'll keep you around for an ego boost but with never want you back.
If you think theres some secret way out of the friendzone, there isn't but read my post in this thread... http://www.puaforums.com/game/15835-...eindzoned.html
(Negs) Okay lets talk about negs... (this one really pisses me off). A neg contrary to popular belief around here isn't some secret thing you do in conversation that will make any girl like you. No stop it, stop thinking that. Everyone listen up so I don't have to repeat myself... A NEG IS AN INSULT... so now you know why negging that girl 100 made her tell all her friends how much of an ass you are.
The purpose of a neg is to knock girls bitch shield down so they know you're not another loser AFC. You don't need to use it often or on every girl for that matter. (AND DON"T USE IT IN A DEFENSIVE WAY... if she insults you don't neg her right back you'll look pathetic)
... So an example of a good neg would be (youre at a night club) "next time you go out don't wear such a flashy dress, its physically painful to look at" but say it will a cocky smile not with a straight face or you'll get slapped in the face.
(so stop trying to next her every time she speaks because you think it'll make you unresistant, it makes you look like an idiot)
(Shit Tests) What is a shit test? A shit test is when a HB asks you to do something with/for her...or... says something, where she'll decide whether or not you're good enough for her based on how you respond. Keep in mind this is only usually done by at least HB 8s or above. GIRLS DON"T SHIT TEST OFTEN...although everyone here thinks anything a girl asks them is a shit test.
A classic example of this would be the HB 8 or above asking a guy to buy her a drink. If you do you fail. Instead say something like "You buy the first one and i'll buy the second". By saying something like this you don't come off as all the other chumps that she gets to buy her drink.
Im off for the night though boys I'll continue this week with more topics. Merry Christmas