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Thread: Using game on Ex wife unethical?

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    Default Using game on Ex wife unethical?

    At the moment I'm going through a divorce and began learning how to talk to woman since my wife is the only one I've ever been with. She didn't want to be alone on Christmas eve so when we were together I ran some game on her and it worked. Should I use game to reconnect or go through with divorce after ten months of failed relationship.

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    Default Re: Using game on Ex wife unethical?

    I wouldn't say it's unethical but it is stupid. Idk what you mean by game but if you "negged" her and she wanted to bang you so be it. But in absolutely no way is game going to save your marriage. This is holy matrimony dude not the club on a Friday night.

    I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. If anything start gaming other girls. Sleep around, date around, but stay civil with your ex-wife. If she's really worth it you'll know after a period.

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    Default Re: Using game on Ex wife unethical?

    Ok cool cool I see you point and appreciate the feedback.

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    Default Re: Using game on Ex wife unethical?

    If the marriage is over, and you've both already decided to go your separate ways, why would you run game on her? If it's over, it's over. Don't play games with her. Move on sir.
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    Default Re: Using game on Ex wife unethical?

    Quote Originally Posted by SonnyCurtis View Post
    ...But in absolutely no way is game going to save your marriage. This is holy matrimony dude not the club on a Friday night.

    I'm sorry to hear about your marriage. If anything start gaming other girls. Sleep around, date around, but stay civil with your ex-wife. If she's really worth it you'll know after a period.
    I gotta disagree respectfully. If your marriage got stale, then you can use game to re-build attraction and save a marriage; if you have trouble communicating, you can use game principles to talk about your thoughts and feelings (ability to emote) and communicate with her in a way that stimulates her. These are just two examples of specific "deal breaker" type marital problems that can be fixed by solid game. Frame control is a while huge group of potential marriage saver pua concepts.

    That all being said, if you guys are fundamentally "just wrong for each other" then, yeah, SonnyCurtis is right, no ammount of game can save it. But if it's not something fundamental, if it's something behavioral or attitude/belief related, then game can help to save the relationship.

    I don't think it's unethical.

    Quote Originally Posted by StealthyLothario View Post
    If the marriage is over, and you've both already decided to go your separate ways, why would you run game on her? If it's over, it's over. Don't play games with her. Move on sir.
    On the other hand though... if things are over-over then you might help yourself to take a few "practice shots" with running game just for the sake of stretching your wings
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    Default Re: Using game on Ex wife unethical?

    I see your point Autismus. The principles of game can work, I totally agree. But I really don't think he's internalized them enough for anything to come of it. He's been with one woman, ever. He claims to be learning game. Great. But there's certainly no way he knows enough to apply it to saving his marriage, much less farker some random broad. The reason the marriage didn't work out in the first place is probably due to lack of experience, no offense.

    My respectful opinion. If OP wants to salvage the marriage I'm all for that, that's very respectable. I'm just saying a marriage counselor or a book about Zen Buddhism would probably go further than game/anything you read about game online. You can try using game principles, OP, but I would investigate other resources as well.

    Bottom line, is it unethical? No. There's nothing wrong with seducing a girl. It's only wrong if it's like your best bud's girlfriend.


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