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Thread: Advice on Asking Questions

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    Default Advice on Asking Questions

    Hi There,

    I go by Allure, and this is my first post on the forum. I have a simple question that I was hoping to get answered:

    When opening a girl, I tend to use a situational opener, introduce myself, and ask some basic questions. For some reason, the girls don't seem to ask the same question back (e.g. where are you from, where do you go to school, etc.), which I assume they would. Am I going about it the wrong way, and why do you think they aren't asking me questions back?

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    Allure

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    Default Re: Advice on Asking Questions

    you ask some basic question?.. you mean "(e.g. where are you from, where do you go to school, etc.)" those?

    Am I going about it the wrong way
    YES, if you are asking those questions above

    why do you think they aren't asking me questions back?
    Because they placed you in the category of the 'normal' guys, or boring and uncreative guys.. who just try to get to know the girl with a lot of 'fluff' conversation.

    also it might be a simple way of rejection, (ie, not showing any sort of interest in who you are)

    apart from the questions you ask, you would want to look at your bodylanguage.. maybe that is the problem (too needy or unconfident sorta)
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    Default Re: Advice on Asking Questions

    Theres some good threads on here for better stuff to ask about. Juggler also has some great material on it. You want to talk about things that elicit emotions and experiences. Don't ask yes or no questions, or things that have one word answers.
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