So this is my first post here, but after browsing this collection of information, I am very impressed with this community. I think I could gain a lot by adding to the discussion here and reading others stories.
That being said, what really made me start searching for a place like this is this most recent situation I have worked myself into. So here goes:
I went to a magnet highschool far from my home town my freshman year. Anyway of course I met people there. Including this girl. Then I went back to my home town school for the rest of HS, and so I didn't see her for those 3 years, and then another 2 after graduating.
I ran into her at a Dubstep show sometime last winter, we exchanged numbers and she really wanted to see me. But some things popped up in my life and it didnt happen. I changed my # and dropped off the grid for an entire year.
So she recently messaged me few days ago on FB asking for my number again, I gave it to her and we texted for a night. Now yesterday she threw an impromptu christmas party at her house and invited me. I brought my friend along, and we both ended up getting laid.
She and I were both pretty drunk, but we both remembered everything. She actually initiated it by arranging for us to share her fold out sofa (living room, other people sleeping in there), we started spooning and holding hands. I started running my hands along her body and suddenly she grabbed my hand and put it on her boobs under her shirt. Well after about 45 seconds of feeling her fun parts she whispered to me "so heres the deal, we can go in that room over there and fool around if you want." So of course we went in there.
Now I know it is not important to list out exactly how the sex went but I will sum it up with general specifics I feel are important and some things we talked about during. We didn't even kiss. She just started going down on me and then we got into it, and at one point like an hour into it she pointed out that we never kissed. So I said kiss me and went for it but she moved her head or something and didn't seem to want to. But contrary to that she did EVERYTHING I asked for. Even anal. She kept asking what I wanted and then we did it. She really wanted to please me and she really wanted me to cum. So that contradiction right there had me confused.
She had told be that she was driving 3 hours to go see her BOYFRIEND the next day, but told me when she gets back she wants me to come over. I said I would bring lube, she jumped at the idea and said that she will let me do whatever I want to her once again. Thing is she had given her own bedroom to her cousin and my wingman as her cousin was to loose her virginity that night. So we were in her room mates room and thus had to be extra quite (weren't supposed to be in there) so we were holding back the whole time. Which is why we were talking about how good the sex would be when she gets back since we could be loud then. She told me during she is a bit of a nympho. She came 6 times during, and she always told me when it was about to happen. I didn't cum at all, I was too drunk. But she kept saying she really wanted me to.
We got tired after about 2 hours and went back in the living room where we kept spooning and I kept playing with her fun parts and the temptation was just too much. I put it back in and we just laid there in bliss. Everyone else was asleep.
So anyway, sun comes up, everyone ended up sleeping in till like 1 PM. While we were in bed she was txting her BF and apparently she was supposed to leave to go see him at like 10 AM, but it was storming and she didn't want to drive 3 hours in it. I read some of the texts (yea terrible I know but I was so curious), and her BF seemed mad and they were on the verge of a fight about it. When we all got up we starting cleaning the house and talking about the night before.
As I left I hugged her and told her to tell me when she gets back. She said she would, and really seemed to mean it.
So thanks for reading my story, here are my questions/thoughts as this is only the 2nd time in my life I have had sex.
1) Does this sound completely alcohol related? She might regret?
2) I actually got on her FB about a month before she msgd me and saw she had a BF, but when she msgd me it said single. So I think they might be on the rocks or something. Its possible he had been out of town and she was just drunk and horny.
3) Obviously if she is the type to cheat she is probably not good GF material, so I just want to play my cards right to keep coming back. I feel like if she was in a good relationship this wouldn't have happened. I literally did not make a move; it was all her.
I am thinking I will basically treat her like a friend when I next see her in a social setting next, but flirt with her a bit. I'm not telling anyone what happened so if she is just looking to fill desires, it will be a secret. I want her to trust me. If they end up breaking up and she drops hints, I will be there for her. My heart is made of steal and I know what I am getting into, I could handle if she does the same to me in a few months.
What do you guys think I should do here? As I type this it is the 1st day after, she is with her BF and his family and we have not communicated since I left. Should I text? What should I say? Ideally I want to pull off friends with benefits and no more. The sex was so good, I must have more lol. How do I pull this off?
-Thanks for input!...btw I will keep updating this thread