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    Singhb09 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Unsure as to how to approach girl I haven't spoken to yet

    So, I've been working at this mall kiosk for about a month and I noticed this cute girl over at a nearby kiosk. Every once in a while I swear I see her looking over; I don't want to be over confident and assume its at me but it has become prettyy frequent that I see her looking over. The kiosk is shutting down soon and I don't want to miss my chance, but i'm unsure as to how I should best approach her. I was thinking of going up, browsing the merchandise at her kiosk and trying to start a casual conversation, but I'm afraid it might not go so well enough to get me to that confident point to ask her out or that it might just be weird for me to act like I'm casually looking at the stuff on the kiosk since she's seen me working right over at mine plenty of times and we've exchanged glances.. On the other hand, I was thinking of just going up and saying something along the lines of "hey, I'm *name*, I work over at the *name of kiosk* kiosk and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime" or something along the lines of that....does that come across as too forward or does it sound like a casual enough of an approach to not seem too far fetched?

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    Default Re: Unsure as to how to approach girl I haven't spoken to yet

    You're really over thinking this. Just go and talk to her and be confident. It's easy to strike some small talk up. You don't need to so formally introduce yourself or tell her where you work. Say you heard her kiosk is closing and wanted to come meet her or something like that. You can start by talking about why the kiosk is closing or what she plans to do for work...From there it shouldn't be to difficult to build a conversation off of something she says. Just be attentive, speak confidently and show that you have value.

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    Default Re: Unsure as to how to approach girl I haven't spoken to yet

    Quote Originally Posted by Express27 View Post
    You're really over thinking this. Just go and talk to her and be confident. It's easy to strike some small talk up. You don't need to so formally introduce yourself or tell her where you work. Say you heard her kiosk is closing and wanted to come meet her or something like that. You can start by talking about why the kiosk is closing or what she plans to do for work...From there it shouldn't be to difficult to build a conversation off of something she says. Just be attentive, speak confidently and show that you have value.
    Whoops, meant that the kiosk I work at is closing down, not the on she works at. But you're right...I just need to find a good starting point for some simple conversation.

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    Default Re: Unsure as to how to approach girl I haven't spoken to yet

    If she has already being checking you out, I'd suggest skipping the whole small-talk and invite her to get something to eat at the mall. Use your lunch as an excuse, or hers. I would not recommend talking about your jobs, I mean.. you are AT the job, that would be boring and redundant, and destroy whatever ideal she has of you (if she really was checking you out.

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    Default Re: Unsure as to how to approach girl I haven't spoken to yet

    You could try this little trick. It relies heavily on body language though so I'll be as clear as I can.

    Write down your number along with your nickname. (Mine is BatMan obviously and I also had drawn a little bat symbol.) Aftwards proceed to approach her. Smile and look her in the eye when you do this and don't waiver. Hand her the number and say "In case you feel like taking a chance." Then walk away. I'd even do a little look back and smile after walking away. Again its all in the body language. Hope this works for you. Good luck.
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