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    Default Re: Need help on seducing a friend

    Some extra bits for you:

    1) Girls that are have an extremely low self esteem might not even try to qualify themselves to you. Or the way some guys drop these qualification questions seem awkward and out of context. Looking back on when i use to use them it looked very trying. For this reason and many others make sure your qualifications are authentic to what you actually desire. Basically don't make up some bs. In the past I would ask her to qualify on things that didn't really matter to me, or would ask them at a time that wasn't really fitting. Finding what your authentically closed off to becoming involved with is critical. It actually charges your interactions because you're not someone that's looking to settle with the first thing that comes along.

    2) Your sexuality, in my opinion, should be expressed from the get go. Instantly. This doesn't mean that you're trying to marry her asap, it just means you're a sexually expressive person. A GREAT test to see if your heading towards the friend zone is to ask yourself the following question in your interactions with women: If I were to be having this interaction with a guy would it be awkward? You're answer should almost always be a "HELL YES". If the interaction your having with a woman could be comfortably had with a man, then your not heading in a good direction. You want that sexual polarity and sexual chemistry riding constantly.

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    Default Re: Need help on seducing a friend

    Well, I'm not sure about american girls. But here in Mexico, if you try to pull that trust issue bs they will totally lose all the sexual atraction, instant friendzone.

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    Default Re: Need help on seducing a friend

    Yes I agree with Dommer. What he's basically talking about is calibration. Yes you may use scripted techniques when starting out, but the goal is to make your own material so you can really come across as genuine.

    Josefavelam does have a point. You do run the risk of coming across as beta if you run the "trust issues" bit. This is why you have to make sure she sees you as complete alpha so that when you do open up with any mushy gushy stuff she will see it as you letting her in, versus just a wimpy guy lol. Also you don't want to keep bringing it up. Once or twice max. It's about calibration and push/pull.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Need help on seducing a friend

    These guys are saying try to be natural so you look as I'd your faking or playing.


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