I haven't been doing as many approaches as I would like, and I have no freaking clue why. But anyways I decide to go to this pub last Saturday night, and was about to leave and this drunk guy starts chatting me up. I thought he was ok, and friendly so I stayed and talked. Well, he had no knowledge of my "hobby" and suggested I should go "open" the 3 set by us. I didn't want to, because they were sitting with a guy. And approaching a 3 set, is a bit out of my comfort zone. Well this guy wouldn't let up. For 10 minutes straight he HOUNDED me to go talk to them, so I thought "fark it, I will do it just to shut him up". I go up to the one girl and say "my friend thinks you are cute, are you single?" She goes "no I am married".
I was about to leave and they ask me to join them. Turns out she was just saying that because she wasn't interested in him, and both girls ended up loving me!! Both really really cute too. The one, I was thinking wanted me. She likes all my status updates. Especially, when I make statuses about, me having mistletoe hanging in every room of my house. Or how men should really love woman. She even gave me her phone number with in 3 minutes of talking to her.
The weird thing that gets me is, that this drunk guy, who I don't even know, hounded me for 10 minutes to go talk to them. He wouldn't even let me talk to other girls. Well anyways, I guess it just felt like I was meant to meet those girls.
Well anyways I was texting quite a bit with the one, and they both added me to facebook. The one that I was interested in, kept liking my status updates and some of pics. I was texting her a lot on Wednesday and had plans to meet up with them yesterday.
I got off work and met them at the bowling alley, I thought it would be cool to surprise my date and say "hey" beside her/kind of behind her. Well she freaked out and jumped up, she seemed so anxious. I remember reading about in The Game, never approach a girl from behind, but in this case I thought it was ok, considering we were texting and had hung out before. Also her and her sister seemed so keen on me, so I didn't think much of it.
After that our date was a total sh1t pile. She couldn't even be comfortable with me at all. She wouldn't talk. Poor body language. Just total awkwardness. I stayed for about an hour and ejected, feeling like dung. She hasn't texted me and hasn't liked any of my facebook statuses. She also "unliked" my status saying "I have misletoe throughout my house, wanna come over to my house?"
What's your take on this? Is she just super insecure? Or was I the complete a-hole for surprising her?