Ok, so the idea of taming a girl might sound bad, but I like to think of girls as little cute chicks that are babies that you have to raise. Bear with this analogy please, but the idea is if things go well, then the relationship will grow and they will be a well behaved companion. However, if things derail then the cute little baby chick will turn into a fire breathing monster.
What do I do with this girl?
I have a love hate relationship with this particular girl. This is a clear example of a high school romance gone bad. The best way for me to describe this scenario in a nutshell is a Forrest Gump analogy, where I am Forrest and she is Jenny.
This girl has baggage in the form of a crappy childhood and adolescence and our relationship is rocky. We talk occassionally. It's weird because I live in a different city now. It seems like the glue that has held us together is the fact I quit talking to her for a year, then come back all of a sudden-- it almost resets the relationship. We end of having a fling, then she goes cold again. We've rinsed-washed-and repeated this for about three times now. I even deleted her from facebook, twice now. We had the fling, even after I deleted her from FB and she knew about it. lol Oh, and the first time I deleted her she learned that I blocked her and got mad about that. She also found it interesting that every time she comes over she winds up naked in my bed, this was a positive comment though because of the way she said it.
Just now she's gone cold again. What do I do? I really want to call her out on the fact that she blew me off on Christmas and bring to light the fact she is going down hill. She is overly religious and it appears she is using her religion as a crutch, but she's a total hippocrit. She is a church leader and almost like a mini preacher, but she drinks, and shows up to church with a hangover every now and then. Now she is in the process of dying her hair red and just got a tattoo of a biblical quote on her foot even though tattoos are a no-no for religious people. She also has a tendency to gravitate to the more down and out type people.
I don't really know what to text her, because we've hit a wall in our conversation. The only thing I can think to do is to not talk to her a while again, and play in a different playground for a while until she decides to play nice. I just want to know if there are any strategies I can use to tame this little bitch. She used to be nice, but her personality is shifting to more of a mean-spirited, manipulative type person. Is there a way I can bring her back to the light side? lol Also, I'm trying to resist texting anything afc or mean, but it's really hard, because I'm wanting to call her out on her b.s.
Thanks for reading, suggestions would be appreciated.