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Thread: Get me immune to Rejection!

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    Default Get me immune to Rejection!

    Is it normal in the game to get a lot of rejections. Logically I know this too be true. But when it happens to me, it kind of stings a little. Like today I saw a cute Filipino chick that always tells me that I am "pogi" which means in Filipino, handsome. When I asked her for her number she said she didn't have it memorized. Yea right!!

    Anyways walking downtown today, I see her and her friends. Instead of just saying a courteous "Hello" she turned around so I couldn't see her, as she was talking on her cell phone.

    I would like to know how many rejections the best puas get and what they are like. Thanks

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    Default Re: Get me immune to Rejection!

    I work as a salesman for a living. And I get rejected all the time. It's just part of the business. However, when I first started, being as sensitive as I am, I couldn't handle it at first. Now, it just rolls off like, water off a ducks back. What helped me, was having a group of people that I work with that helped me in those situations.

    Even the best guys in my profession get the same harsh rejections, but they just get more of them.

    What I would like to know is, is it different with PUAs? Or is the amount of rejection in the beginning to be expected?

    Since, there hasn't been many replies on here about it. I am assuming a lot of guys, don't do cold approach pick up that often.

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    Default Re: Get me immune to Rejection!

    Read my threat on my Abundance Philosophy in the Member's lounge.
    Isolate. Escalate. Penetrate. Again and again.

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    Default Re: Get me immune to Rejection!

    I get "rejected" all the time. The key is to not take it personal. Look at what you could had done better and improve. If you don't see anything wrong with how you handled the situation then chalk it up to external circumstances. There are so many things out of our control. You can ask Closer, I get rejected sooooooooo much, but it's not the results that i get that makes me determine what was a good night, what makes a good night for me is the actions in which I took and the experience in which i gained.
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Get me immune to Rejection!

    Yes!!! I like your post StealthyLothario on abundance. I was just thinking the same thing. When I started out as a salesman I struggled a lot. Then my second year, I read "Think and Grow Rich"- Napoleon Hill.

    There is a chapter in there that talks about the abundance mentality. He goes in to detail on how to get your subconscious mind to work for you. He calls it a Definite Chief Aim. Anyways, I quadrupled my production the following year.

    I would like to repeat the same kind of success in pickup.

    One thing that I had then, was a group of guys that helped me on a regular basis. But with pick up, I only have you guys. So even though, we don't meet face to face, I am hoping we can still help each other improve!

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    Default Re: Get me immune to Rejection!

    rejection is just a natural part of the game. its like being a telamarketer, a good telemarketer knows not to take anything personaly and that the more calls he makes the more likely he is going to make a sale. as pua's we often face astronomical rejection when we start out, but as you get better you will get fewer rejections. the easiest thing to do is to just walk when girls reject us. quite honestly even the best pua's still face rejection. no man can pull any and every girl he talks to.

    for a realy good way to learn to deal with rejection, try going to a crowded place and hand out flyers for some political organization. trust me you will get rejected in every way you can imagine.

    once you get rejected so many times, you become imune to it. right now i could get rejected 100 times in a row and it would not affect me in any way. quite honestly i think i get rejected about 5 times for every one n-close i get, and then of the n-closes i get only 1 in every 3 turns into a date, and then of the dates only 1 in 5 turns into a seduction. it takes lots of rejection to get to that success you want. as you get better those odds get more in your favor, but right now i probably get over 100 rejections for every one girl i sleep with. it really is a numbers game until you get alot of experience (thousands of approaches) so why should any one approach hold much weight? after all rejection is the key to sexual prosperity

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    Default Re: Get me immune to Rejection!

    Yes Meteora, this is the kind of answer I was looking for. I read recently starting out, only about 10% of all woman will like you. When I was asking out woman, over 13 years ago, that was my odds then.

    I just got a pic with a cute female friend. Would it be a dhv to put that up on facebook? I am only medi ocre good looking, she's like a 8-9.

    I know, different topic. I just don't feel like starting a new thread on something so minor.
    Thanks


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