Right, I think Ive got you now.

I see what you mean with the pedestal stuff aswell, good image there

After evaluating after the previous comment how I treated women (the bullying side/aloofness/distantness?) Ive come to the conclusion that it is generally just with her, which is unfortunate. The aloofness ive realised is me being petty in response to her being distant prior (my childish idea of revenge or something).

Okay, well Il keep things posted as to what happens as I believe that with her I can evaluate how far my game has progressed in the coming months

Thank you again Beaker52. I hope that I can get your advice again